Asked a girl out and she said “maybe if I have enough time.”

I think that is a polite no from her. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings seeing as you two are friends and she probably likes you that way.

I wouldn't wait around on her. You are either into someone or your not.

If there is a chance with her you don't want to come off as desperate by pushing her. Just move on and see what she does next.

That's the way I see it. I could be totally wrong though, as I am just a random on the internet that doesn't have the full picture.

Good luck.

 

Based off all the information you've given us, yeah, the ball's in her court now. Replying that way means she's either trying to let you down nicely or she is too busy to be dating. I'd move on with your life and she'll either contact you about it, saying she has time now or she doesn't contact you at all. This way, you move on and if she doesn't contact you, you didn't waste time hung up on a girl who never had any intention of dating you.

 

"Let me see if I can if have enough time". This translates to you're not worth her time, meaning you're 100% rejected. If she was really into you she'd ask when, and where. I would say she wants to see to what lengths you'll go for the privilege of being with her and getting her attention. She doesn't respect you.

 

Got to agree with the above - that is a definite not interested.

 

Find a new girl.

She can’t say no.

 

It's either a no or she genuinely has a thigh schedule. In either case you should just focus on living your life normally. Date someone else if you feel like it. Maybe you'll get your answer in time, maybe not.

 

You could wait around for a couple of weeks or so if you feel like it but don't reserve yourself forever for a girl who might or might not be interested. Most certainly you should move on at least once you find someone else.

 

Walk away mate.
Build yourself up and then try again , not necessarily with her.

 

Yeah at that point it doesn't matter wether she was interested. She either wasn't or she truly is too busy or she's just taking too long to decide. The end result is the same.

 

lol. How to say "no" with six words.

 

That's wishful thinking. If brad pitt or leonardo Dicaprio asked her out do you think she would tell them "maybe if i have time?"

 

just wait, don't try to push it, maybe she's going through something or maybe she's just too polite and doesn't want to say no

 

Sure wait a few more years or take the hint and stop being stuck in this situation with this girl. She's probably already known you're interested in her and you're probably not who she is looking for if she is successful at college/whatever you're doing right now, and she probably has 10 other guys asking her out which is why she doesn't have time. Go and find someone else. Try to get to know several others. You're not going to find the best match the instantly.

 

Her reply doesn’t sound like a definite No! Did you exchange numbers or email addresses? If so, it sounds like she might be open. It is definitely possible since she mentioned ‘having time’ that she is quite busy!

 

She is just busy. Wait some days even two weeks but keep talking to her like a friend, don't mention seeing her too soon.