I AM INTO SO MANY WOMEN

I have the same problem in all honesty except unlike you I've never had any experience with women. I never had sex, I never had a girlfriend. If I am being honest I only have myself to blame. I was always afraid of losing my virginity and I never got the chance to really "get out" and talk to women and when I did I was often shy around women I still struggle with being shy around women but I feel each time I relapse It makes me even shyer to talk to women. I feel like it is too late to ever get a relationship now because of Covid again in my state but at least I will get plenty of time to work on myself and boost confidence.

 

The OP strikes me as dealing with severe sexual addiction, it is not healthy in any sense to have sex with several women, very confusing to all concerned. If people cannot abstain for even several days from sex, they are sex addicts and belong in a help group like Sex and Love Addicts.

For others a little afraid of women, there are good solutions. Women can be shy and reserved too. There are plenty of good single groups to get to know one another and probably it is best to go slow to let love and affection to be non physical for a while.

 

Where can I meet these "Single groups"?

 

There are many online. Maybe someone else could recommend some. My brother met his wife in a 12 step AA group.

I know a guy who met his girlfriend on Tinder which has a reputation for short term hook ups.

 

I'm sorry man I feel extremely unmotivated to use dating sites anymore. I tried to use one and it ended up being a bad experience for me.

 

Women and girls are going to look at potential friend's background, interests, job, etc.. The physical is only skin deep. Long term relationships require work. Personally I am not into online dating.

Compliment women and girls you see, see if there is any mutual interest. Dress well, use good cologne, look neat and pleasant and women may be attracted to you. A good exercise and health routine is vital, and your mental health or lack thereof should be evident to others.

 

Hi @Hotflame

Thank you for sharing. Yours is a story I've heard many times before.

- Fascination with sex at a young age.
- Molested as a child.
- Sex with many partners.
- Cheating on girlfriend/spouse.

Read these forums, you'll see it. Go to a program like a 12-Step "S" program and you'll hear it. You are not alone.

 

I dress well and use deodorant (I hate cologne in all honesty) I try to look neat as possible and I also try to exercise as much as possible the main thing I have to work on is confidence because I am extremely shy around women to the point that it breaks me and I turn into a nervous wreck.

 

Well, then I don't see what would be the big impediments to relationships with women. You could work on Facebook connections, and find women willing to talk to build your self confidence or join group therapy, etc..

 

Aren't we all...