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Sissy fantasy acted out. Gone this far can be reversed?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Cesaro, Feb 19, 2021.

  1. Cesaro

    Cesaro Fapstronaut

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    Do you mean I won't able to overcome this? Or just pointing the fact I can't erase what I have done.
    Hopefully my history will be helpful for some people out there.
    I do have some advice for people who because escalating in porn has started to doubt about their sexuality and considering the options they might be bi, gay or trans. If this is your case make yourself some questions:
    -If you think you might be bi, have you ever had feelings for a man, in a romantic way? If the answer is no, most probably is you are bi and just developing a fetish because of porn. Same question in the case you think you might be gay.
    If you fantasise about being a woman and having sex with man and because these fantasies you think you might be trans, stop for a second and ask yourself; is your fantasy limited to sexual acts? If so, probably just a fetish. I mean, you don't fantasize about fall in love with a guy, meet his parents, planning a family, have babies. Right?
    The fantasy caused by porn usually is limited to the sexual act, to perform the perfect pornstar and be submissive to a man. Well, these are not symptoms that you are a trans, you just developed a wird fetish due to porn.
    That's a good starting point to get yourself into a recovering and healing process
     
  2. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    I can't help you with this, never been in your shoes! Hope you live your life at the best :)
     
  3. Wave tamer

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    I think if you were doing it from an early age way before porn, just going hardmode (no orgasm for years) won’t deal with the underline issues. Obviously stop porn- block all adult content on your devices. As all that fuels your lust and escalation. But if you feel crossdressing is going against your values and orientation then you need to get a decent psychotherapist that deals with fetishises etc. They will help you unravel the root cause of this behaviour and work on the issues involved. If you understand where it’s coming from you will be able to form strategies to over come it. It’s tough work but totally worth it. I found that trying to withstand the urge from sex and MO completely the urge would build up that much that the slightest thing would trigger me. The guilt from failing to keep up my stint would lead to self punishing behaviour ie transwomen, sissy Hypno, femdom shit. Forgive yourself you’re not a bad person and you will beat this you’ve obviously been through some challenges that have pushed you off track a bit. Work on healthy self soothes to replace these behaviours, after a while they will become new coping strategies. Get an accountability partner and post regularly. Look after yourself. :)
     
    Last edited: Feb 24, 2021
  4. Darkfighter

    Darkfighter New Fapstronaut

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    Hey Man

    When you was a kid, wich kind of tv programm you looked? What was your first arousal as far you can remember?
    So when you now get these urges, how long u can just look at this without get involved in this thougts (taking action). Sorry my english is bad. Im very introverted and i cant tell you or explain you why this would help you.
     
  5. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    Is it too late? Who knows. But you should at least try
     
  6. Wave tamer

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    Just started searching ts escorts what a bunch of freaks what am I doing. How is that going to stop me feeling shit??
     
  7. Wave tamer

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    Saturday nights 85% relapse night ..
     
  8. treed

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    why are they freaks?
     
  9. Wave tamer

    Wave tamer Fapstronaut

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    I’m just trying to put myself off and look over the top of my sex crazed tinted glasses! And finally I’m starting to see them for a lot of messed up guys pretending to be women and sell their bodies to try and buy happiness, to a load of messed up lost souls that want to escape their life, punish themselves and get a toxic rush from engaging in lust. The whole thing’s freaky including myself getting envolved.
    Freak:
    a very unusual and unexpected event or situation.
    a person, animal, or plant with an unusual physical abnormality.
     
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