Do you prefer to have a Girlfriend or Prostitute ?

I would like a real relationship of love and caring instead of just fake momentary pleasure.
Humans have emotional needs also, which can never be fulfilled by prostitutes. A girlfriend can give you a purpose to work, motivation to wake up daily and improve your health and personality, whereas you don't have any reason to improve anything in case of prostitute. Prostitute can give you sexual pleasure but you won't be able to ever feel love, the feeling of caring someone more than yourself, the feeling of complete devotion towards each other. Prostitute can give you sexual pleasure but love and care of a woman is even more high level pleasure than sex, even while having sex, you will find huge difference between amount of pleasure from a woman who is doing intercourse for money and a woman who has fallen for your love and have given you right to explore her.
A girlfriend can become your wife in future but prostitute won't do that, you can start your family with your girlfriend and later on also have kids, becoming parents is even bigger pleasure, cute kids are amazing (they might annoy you sometimes but that's what makes them even more cute), then in your old age, forget about getting a prostitute, but your wife will remain by your side till end if nothing goes wrong.

 

I think every man doing nofap should seincerely answer this question. Those who choose prostitute can't do nofap.
For me, of course a girlfriend.

 

People who where in a toxic relationship needs to work on themselves first before stepping into the next toxic relationship.

The more toxicity is in your own mind the bigger chance will be you will miss the red flags while knowing a girl.

Girlfriend or prostitute?
None. First do your own homework.

If you can imagine it you can live it.

 

If you want peace and happiness, the answer is clear.
If you want pleasure and excitement, again the answer is clear.
Happiness is never pleasure , nor pleasure Happiness.
They are on the opposite side of the spectrum.

 

I've never had a prostitute but I can appreciate the slogan:
"prostitution isn't paying for sex it's paying for her to go away"

 

The last 2 years I would've said that whatever of those 2 options. And that was beacuse (as you say) porn changed my view of real life, I almost arranged a date (obviously for sex) with one woman, I talked to them (in phone and in person - face to face), messaged them, thinking I could find affect/intimacy/comprehension/connection/value with someone of them. I didn't even cared about STD's. I believed that maybe I could marry with one of them (I am not saying that people don't change, but the way I wanted to do that wasn't the right one). Some difficulties in my life contributed to that, but definitively porn made me see sex and woman distorted. Fortunately that now has changed, but I am still working and taking care 'cause all the media and the world is trying to dominate our minds by selling us the idea of promiscuity.

 

i prefer personal development and growth.
love and sex both are bullshit.they make you weak and u feel as if you have achieved something whereas in reality it's nothing but an orgasm(in case of sex) and someone who's probably waiting to use you(in case of love).
both of them are nothing but illusions,and most importantly in today's world,there's nothing such as trust in 99.99%of us,that comprises of the majority of the people who talk of love affection and care,the ones who really love are those who're detached fro materialistic pleasures such as monks and those who believe in deep meditation as they have risen above things like these.
they love everyone and every being equally without discrimination for them everyone is to be loved and cared for.unfortunately,the love and affection that most people show these days is a way to mask their dark intentions and gains that they see in the person,personally i support this ideology in today's not so good a world,keeps you alert and going,most importantly you don't get attached.
if you look at it closely,attachment is the root cause of all worries.

 

I'm agnostic, so personally? A prostitute. Love in regards to another woman is something I haven't felt. I liked girls but it was never a feeling if adoration or provision: it was lust. That being said, I have no issue with those who pay. Chances are, if you're going on a date or etc, you're paying for a woman's time.

 

I guess this is why we should each stay in our own countries.

 

That last paragraph reminds me of something. Have you ever seen The Truman Show?

 

My condolences. The greatest thing a father can leave with is knowledge yet it took death itseof for him to recognize you. As for success...remember this. It is often said that Sir Isaac Newton was a virgin. As long as your celibacy is by active choice and you're making strides...you're golden.

 

At the very least I would think about your wife taking care of herself and her health! Personally, I love it when my wife makes love to me after laser hair removal. I think it's very sexy when your wife is mindful of little things like going to the beautician.