why sex before marriage is not good

Also it ruins women's pairbonding mechanism which makes them less likely to sustain long term relationships in the future and increases the likelihood of being single mothers which increases the chances of the sons becoming criminals and makes society as a whole worse for everyone involved.

This is the main reason it's immoral for you as a man to have sex with a woman who is not your wife.

Then there is the stds and unwanted pregnancies to think about aswell as women potentially accusing you of falsely raping them, landing you in prison and robbing you of decades if not your whole life.

My advice: stay away from women, don't have sex before marriage.

 

Well, you should be able to look at a woman and be indifferent to her no matter how beautiful she is, same way you don't care if a man walks by. That's when you'll know you have beaten lust and it seems you have a long journey ahead of you.

Good luck.

 

I think that's personal preference. If the idea was sex before marriage alot of people would never have sex and miss out on an amazing part of life . Besides that people may not know what they want .not only in a partner but a sexual partner . I don't think sex clouds your judgement I think it's all part of normal healthy relationships and people don't need to be married to experience sex

 

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I am not religious .I don't go out of my way to ruin anyones life either. Why would you assume that by having sex before marriage . Doesn't make much sense. More of an extreme view tbh. Why would you think marriage is the saving grace . You've heard of divorce right ?

 

You quoted me though I don't know what you said. You're not conciously or single-handedly ruining anyone's life, it was wrong of the OP to take that stance.

Me and the OP talked about how women who are promiscuous will have a harder time to sustain long term relationships in the future because it ruins their pairbonding mechanism and by having sex with them you're contributing to divorce rates staying high which isn't good for the woman, her future husband, any future children who are born in that situation and society as a whole.

The woman will probably have sex regardless, if not you it will be someone else but you don't want to be responsible for having contributed to something immoral. That was my logic.

It's like if other people throw things on the ground instead of the trash, they can do what they want but you are only responsible for yourself so make sure you are not part of the reason it's messy.

That's how I choose to go about my life.

 

I admire your courage to try to reason with them, @Loco90 , but it is all in vain. People like them just prefer to pat themselves on the back for being masters of the universe and their views being the only ones that are right.

Part of why I cringe when I go through 70% of the NoFap content.