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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by im_done, Oct 5, 2021.

  1. Oct 5, 2021 #1
    im_done

    im_done Fapstronaut

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    I've spent nearly ten years of my life on this gsrbage. No matter what particular narratives say, I know this is not okay for me. My body knows it isn't ok for me. I'm tired of looking at the same taboo mess that I have become accustomed to. I crush my sleep and destroy my mornings. I often blamed the images I saw on others. "Why do people do this? How much are they getting paid?". I was asking the wrong question. Now, I want to know why I'm doing this. Your support (or ridicule) is appreciated.
     
    im_done, Oct 5, 2021
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  2. Oct 5, 2021 #2
    jw2021

    jw2021 Fapstronaut

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    I like your user name! I have spent nearly 20 years on this garbage so I am glad to see you getting out now before losing any more time. I wish I would have a long time ago! For me, quitting was about sitting down and putting on paper exactly how I want to live and exactly what I want to be. Being addicted to PM is definitely not on my list! So I have made a choice to quit giving my thoughts to what I don't want and giving my mental energy to exactly what I do want.

    Another thing that has helped me is being a part of one of the groups in the "Accountability" section. I also make use of the "Panic Button" in the upper right hand of the screen. Best of luck to you and God Bless!
     
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  3. Oct 6, 2021 #3
    Come stronger

    Come stronger New Fapstronaut

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    I recently joined NoFap
    I came to know this Now only
    Am a 7 years Mastubator......
    Could you please help What to do if I got urges.
    In previous times I don't wanna masturbate but after a good sleep I itself didn't know I will feel some brisk and my mind automatically goes into watch porn and I will masturbate But I realise after Masturbating that why should I do this now.....
    So am in so depressing manner after this kind of activities.
    Even though I set some goals, it all goes into failure .
    But now I am really do this or else I will surely suicide bcoz of this irritation.
    I may sometimes thought why do we have this kind of urges..........
    So please pls help me how to overcome urges, it is the one which breaks me everytime.
     
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    Come stronger, Oct 6, 2021
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  4. Oct 8, 2021 #4
    im_done

    im_done Fapstronaut

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    Thanks. I lurked on NoFap spaces occasionally, but another relapse I had in the morning prompted me to finally make an account. After cleaning myself up, I made myself look into the bathroom mirror and uttered those words: "i'm done". I've had this moment several times but that morning? I was angry. As of right now, I have two days on NoFap. At the time of typing this, it is 2 am and I WILL NOT FAIL. My goal is 90 days but my true goal is to lose count.
     
    im_done, Oct 8, 2021
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