Addiction in flash dick.

never really understood this addiction, what in it do you find attractive exactly, the danger or something else?

 

I know that this feels like an addiction.

But you need to understand how actually severe this is— you're engaging in criminal behavior.

You can be charged for sexual harrassment, lewd and lacivious conduct, public indecency.
You could be a registered sex offender.
The chances of your living a dignified life and holding a decent job will be in the gutter.

Let that sober you, because if the fear of consequence won't push you to stop and seek help... I don't what will.
Start your 90 days. Go to a therapist. Get down on your knees before God.

 

Well...
Youre assaulting someone.
And you derive pleasure from it.
You should seek help with a mental health professional, so that you can find other ways to experience the same rush without hurting innocent victims.

 

Exposing yourself to unsuspecting women is something that has lasting consequences for the women you involve. For you it may only last until you move on but for the victim (and they are victims, not fellow participants) it can cause mental health problems that stay. Have a read of the link below (and put yourself in the position of the women that have been on the receiving end). Women you assault are people's girlfriends, sisters, daughters etc. They have their own lives, loves and interests. They're not playthings for your sexual perversion. Do you have any female relatives or friends? How would you feel if someone treated them as objects for their own pathetic depravity? What would they think if they knew what you do to other women? There's no sexual connection between a victim and an abuser.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2...posure-flashing-sarah-everard-police-response

Flashing women is mental (as opposed to physical) sexual assault but assault none the less and is rightly treated by society as such. As fellow members of the forum we will give you the benefit of the doubt as to how you got yourself into this. We know pornography is escalating and can lead to different fetishes but pornography is not to blame for anyone choosing to act on them, particularly actions like this. The article above highlights the links between indecent exposure and going on to physically assault women. While most will stay at flashing, society doesn't see it that way. You might think yourself that you would never go on to do anything physical to a woman, but did you think you'd be flashing women say five/ten years ago? If you get caught or identified you'll be treated as a future rapist by the rest of society and you don't want that hanging over you. Being on this forum or admiting you have a problem won't be any mitigating factor if you do get into trouble with the law or with any members of society that might choose to meet out their own justice.

You need to take the choice from this point to stop doing this and move on, and you will need to put in the effort to achieve it. You won't be addicted to any particular act so you're not addicted to flashing. It's simply your current way of obtaining sexual pleasure, however it probably goes deeper that that. Any form of sexual assault is likely to involve control issues. Think hard about your life. Are there areas elsewhere in your life (maybe involving women) that you don't feel in control of? Are you taking your lack of control from there and choosing to impose that elsewhere? Are you doing this because you want to feel in-control and feel that in that moment when you impose yourself into a powerless woman's life that you're in control of her?

Have a think about what actually causes you to do this and the consequences of your actions for youself and for others. You don't necessarily need to feel ashamed of yourself if you move on, but you should feel guilty about the harm that you may have been causing to others. Feeling guilt is a good thing in this sense (shame: I am a bad person; Guilt: I'm a good person, but my actions are bad). It can help you to move forward.