Attracted to older girls

Having those thoughts won't help you with your recovery.

I used to like older women, and at certain point it is normal, because our nature (our primitive insctincts, our sexual desires) try to looks for what it will bring us security or better results, in this case it'll be more mature women. Because more maturity will result in healthier children.

But we're not purelly animals, so it won't be the best for you (and for her) and it won't be normal (in several aspects) if you are with older women.

 

It's very normal for teenage boy to find women a decade or more older than them very attractive. The 24-30 year old age group is when women's peak fertility crosses over the time they have the highest financial/social value, making them very attractive partners. As long as you're pursuing relationships where there's an equal level of respect, decision-making, status, and attractiveness, I wouldn't worry too much if you're attracted to women a few years older than you.

For now though focus on your reboot. Feel encouraged to flirt around, but don't fixate on certain features or traits in partners, just enjoy yourself and whoever you're in company with.

 

It's not something weird. I mean, I always liked women older than me. I like women in their 40s or 50s and I don't think it's abnormal in any way. I mean look at Charlize Theron(46) or Nikole Kidman(54). They look very good. I think older women are sexier and have a more mature mentality which is very attractive for me.

 

Made my day! Enjoy your teens bro, be playful

 

Basically every teen boy has had those thoughts.

 

Better than being attracted to younger girls haha

 

I always liked mature woman. Now Im 38 and finally get these 40 to 50yo. And its good.

 

Older women are hot

 

Once you abstain from some 120 days that attraction will diminish and eventually fade away.. You will start getting attracted to normal girls...

 

what do you mean by normal, his age or younger than him?

 

This happened (or is happening) to me.

 

Your age / his age

 

Actually is 15 years old the fertility peak of a woman. Between 15-20 years old is their biology fertility peak. After 20 it starts to go a little bit downwards and after 30 it accelerates.

This is just biology it has nothing to do with social, cultural, moral believes.

 

That is true, but I'm not just talking about peak fertility, I'm also including status and perceived reputation. Fertility peaks from 18-24, but is still sufficiently high until around 30. Even if the chance of not impregnating a female drops from 1/100 times to 1/5, since humans have always tended towards monogamy, not impregnating a female 1/5 times during her fertile period is not an issue because she probably won't have sex with someone else. Humans tend to accrue more resources as they get older, and since women still have effectively high fertility until ~30 (due to monogamy) and more perceived status and resources, this age is often considered the most attractive by average males. Let me explain.

Humans males evolved to be attracted to females during their most fertile ages, but also to whether that female had the means to care for potential children. For example, men with less money and lower IQs tend to be more attracted to women with larger breasts, and men with more money and higher IQs tend to be more attracted to women with more shapely hips and bigger butts.

Larger breasts convey greater access to resources (either through excess fat or stronger genes) and more ability to care for and nurse children. Henceforth, men who have less money and means to care for their children go for women with larger breasts because those women are subconsciously thought to be able to pick up the slack.

On the other hand, shapely hips and bigger butts correlate very well with fertility (both between different women AND as age increases for one woman), and human males evolved to identify this. Men who have lots of resources and the means to provide for children subconsciously care more about the fertility of their mates because they don't need the female to pick up the slack, and therefore find hips and butts more attractive.

Some human societies have changed this dynamic. The stratification of male/female jobs in some societies prevented females from using their biologically inherited traits to care for their children and accrue resources, so they only became valuable for their fertility. Additionally, beauty standards tend to come from ruling classes/elites, and when elite women are not allowed to rule/govern society and are desired completely for their family ties or ability to have children, the lower classes tend to subconsciously recognize this and follow suit. However, in societies where there is less strict gender roles and greater cooperation of resource gathering between male and female partners (more similar to how we evolved to function), the age of the most attractive women tends to be higher.

In conclusion, while there is a strong biological drive to impregnate women during their most fertile ages, there is also a strong drive to impregnate women who will be able to protect and raise the potential child, either by male/female cooperation of resource gathering or complete security from the male. To say that males are biologically driven to find the most attraction to women aged 15-20 is just not true. Humans did not evolve this way, and have only been conditioned to this belief by social customs over the last 10,000 years, a blink in the timeline of human evolution. With the financial and social emancipation of women happening in Western societies, we are likely to move back towards our natural attractive relations of mutually cooperative pairs.

 

what about the risk of pregnancy at 15 when the body is not fully mature?

 

Most girls are fully matured at 14. usually between 14-17 most already are and in some cases it takes till 19 to be fully developed.

Still it's consider a high risk pregnancy to be a teenage pregnant girl but not for biological reasons.

 

So what?