How do you tell a girl that you have a thing for feet

Maybe just don’t say anything. If/when you start dating a girl, just ask her if you can give her a foot massage

 

Don't rush it, don't make it look like if this is the only thing you want from her.

 

I think it's going to be considered creepy if you aren't actually dating this girl. Because you have to be in some sort of relationship with the girl to even get that close to her feet imo.

In my experience the way I introduced my foot fetish (the most comment fetish in the world I may add) is by asking my girlfriend if she wanted a foot massage, girls usually like receiving them and tend to say yes. At that point I was just playful and kissed her toes, this prompted her to ask if I have a foot fetish.

 

Don't say anything just start playing with them and see what she does.
Some girls are shy about their feet.
You have to try and see.

 

How important is your foot fetish? Is it a make or break for being with this girl?

Just bring it up. Honesty and truth are important.

If she’s not into it and it’s not make or break, cool.

If she’s not into it and it’s a deal breaker, then you both know and you won’t waste your time

If she’s into it - GOLD

Also, I have to say the whole “ask if you can massage her feet and then start kissing them” is pretty problematic and your partner might feel like you tried to fool her or betray her trust. Use your words dude.

 

This.

Also, for the love of God, do not ask for feet pics.

 

From my experience dating a variety of women and knowing a few sex workers, having a foot fetish is mild compared to what some guys are into. I mean I love to take toenail polish off women and many of them have let me, and it's fun for me. If they want a foot massage, sure. A bucket of warm water, a washcloth, some lotion, then I go for it.

I don't get off on it, though. I don't know, just like doing it. Fingernails, too.

Just don't ask me to paint them - I stink!!!

A woman I ended up being engaged to liked to suck my toes. Didn't do a thing for me, but she liked it so I let her from time to time.

Chill, boss. (Thumbs up)

 

I don't think it's that awkward. A lot of girls have openly told me their fetishes from hands to being verbally abused in bed to choking. Maybe bring it up if they share their fetishes first or like what @modern milarepa said, just try it in bed one night and see what happens.

 

You have to build a relationship first. That's where a lot of people here go wrong I think. They build their life around their fetishes.
First you need a stable, happy relationship and then bit by bit talk about things you want. Even if it takes 12 months. But do it when your not on porn or havnt watched for 90 days so that you have a clear mind.