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Addicted to sexting/nude swapping/camming

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Sep 5, 2021.

  1. So for the last couple of years, I've found I've gotten more of a rush from sexting and camming or swapping nudes, because I think I'm actually interacting with someone and getting off to a person live, rather than passively getting off to a video. That make any sense?
     
  2. Are you doing all of this with a girl who you pay or is it someone who's genuinely interested in you?
     
  3. Oh, usually a girl that I pay. I'd never do that kind of thing with someone that I know
     
  4. Oh ok.

    Well it makes sense why you'd think that. I guess technically it's not as bad as getting on a site like Porn Hub and going at it but I can't imagine it's much better. Kind of like smoking "light" cigarettes and expecting to be healthier? LOL! I'm only 5 weeks into this so I don't have as much experience as you do.

    I'm all for taking steps in the right direction but it sounds like after 2 years of doing this, you're not making much progress. My question is what is stopping you? If you've given up regular porn, why not give this up too? I'm genuinely asking because I'd like to know your experience with this.
     
  5. HelperX

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    Now you are enjoying yourself with getting off to nude women but eventually this enjoyment will run out because you are addicted to it. You started with lots of libido and by keep going with the addiction your libido will decrease until you'll have little to zero libido. And with the libido descreasing, you'll start to feel lack of motivation and depression.
    Along with all of this, you'll feel that you are not able to stop the addiction and you'll become a slave of sexual urges. All of this doesn't make life worth living. You should stop now before it's too late.
     
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  6. That makes a lot of sense. It's the inner addict finding new ways to get a kick, a rush, a high.
     
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  7. IGY

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    All this is porn. So, each time is another relapse. You cannot heal or recover from your addiction to porn addiction by using a different type of porn. And any attempt to justify it by saying this type of porn is less damaging than another is futile. :oops: That is like an alcoholic saying that as long as I don't drink one type of alcohol, I can drink another. It is a no brainer man.
     
  8. Galaxy7777

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    Its a very interesting topic, the way i see it, fast internet webcaming is saddly another threat that is slowlly gaining more strength, as tech advances, this type of sexual way of getting off is getting more known and more sophisticated as there are now VR gears and even tactil suits that can give a very realistic sensation of touch(and all this is still primitive), looking at it like an evolutionary sequence, first there was drawings or erotic paintings, then magazines with nude shots taken by the first cameras, then the computer appears and there where free porn/nude pics, then advanced into videos, and continued to Hd high quality free videos and multiple sites more than before, and now tech is bringing webcaming/Vrsex to the table, people will start opting for vr sex as stds wont be a problem and the abilty to choose a free model by the click of a button from the 1000s around the globe will be revolutionary, would be like choosing a porn video from the millions there are just that now its with real porn actress and totally free, but yes, it would be a totally new thing to be aware of
     
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  9. CzanCzanCzan

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    I've done the same thing. I think it's because I got bored with usual P. and went one step further. But it's the same type of fake stimulant. It maybe even worse because it got my dopamine even higher and get me even more depressed. I've realised that the person on the other side of this don't really like me or enjoy this, she is doing it only for the money. When money runs out she losses all the interest. That's pretty sad. I was just lying to myself thinking that I got some connection with the other person. Most of those people I've met on camsites turned out rude and selfish.

    Don't fall for that. You just go down deeper into the rabbit hole.
     
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  10. Real Life Survivor

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    Definitely! Recovering cam addict here who did it to decompress.
     
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  11. Oh yeah same here. It definitely was for stress and all of that for me
     

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