Today’s a huge fail

You are recovering, but you must remember that recovery isn't a smooth process, there are going to be ups and downs. Have you told your girl about your journey with NoFap and how you aren't 100% yet?

The fact that you started to get an erection when you were close with her while still clothed is a good sign, it tells me that if you continue hard mode you will eventually be able to get and maintain your erections. It's all about not touching yourself during the day (only for using the washroom/bathing) in time you begin to recondition your mind to normal girls and not porn.

It seems like you are suffering from PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction) I'm sure you've heard this term before. Don't think too negatively about this experience, you aren't 100% yet in your recovery but you can get there if you just keep sticking to the plan of recovery.

 

Same here bro, I got bad PIED. Fucked a girl once, was great. The next 3 times we tried hooking up I had the same shit, dicks hard under the clothes, pull it out and baby limp mode... Needless to say she found a next man.
Just gotta be patient through all this shit.

 

Hey buddy. If you have had no PMO for 2½ months, that is very, very good. However, you might be flatlining. Periods of this can come and go. It is a sign of your brain readjusting, so it is good. However, it can be frustrating when your sex drive libido) goes and erections are impossible or do not last. I hope she will be patient and understanding when you're flatlining.