Dump my girlfriend?

I think before you make the decision, it would be best to talk to her about it and let her know how you feel, 8 years is a long time with someone and no way in hell will that be easy to recover from down the line. Essentially, you don't want to regret your decision later on if you do decide to leave her because of your desires. Going back to what I said at the start, you can make your decision based off the reaction you get from her.

Gl bro

 

Men shouldn't ever get into relationships with women who were just a fling at the start. A serious relationship is built on a stronger foundation, your FWB should have stayed your FWB for however long and then you go your separate ways.
8 years is an absurdly long time to have a girl and NOT marry her, but you do you. Having said that, 8 years and the relationship is soured? Just move on dude.
You don't sound ready for a serious relationship btw, maybe go back to FWB or ONS, this kind of thing. You don't HAVE to be in a relationship. Especially if you're thinking about cheating on her, I think its best you just admit to yourself you want sex from different women and move on.

 

Make up is not natural. Get used to not having a chance to ejaculate when you feel like it. Stop wasting your seed.

 

' but after 7 years we got 'serious''
what ? ;D

 

Hey. I think it's time to talk. Like a real talk. Not "you become lazy, do something with yourself woman" talk, but "where are we in our relationship and where we want to move?" talk.
You obviously like her and she seems like a nice person. You obviously get to the point where you both kinda take stuff for granted and just co-living. It doesnt mean you have to break up. Just maybe change the attitude.
I agree with her point of not "being attractive all the time" but well she should be attractive for you at least sometimes.
One final thought - this is not a decision to make with your dick but heart. Keep it on mind.

Good luck, man.

 

If you really love her it might be worth working on that relationship.
Of course it takes time, effort and honesty no matter whom you're with.
The novelty of other girls is always alluring while being in a relationship and is especially exacerbated when you're going through a rough patch. Afterwards it can be a sobering experience tho to realize that apart from sex you can't share much with a lot of other girls. Knowing someone for that amount of time is special.

I totally understand your feelings as your needs are not getting met right now, but where is that coming from?
Is that you just not initiating anymore because you've lost attraction or is it also her turning a bit cold in that regard?
Either way you guys would have to do something, starting with talking openly about your feelings because right now the situation doesn't seem fair to any of you.
If it's just about the clothes and the make up it might be either not the love of your life or your sexualized brain looking for unnatural stimuli that will never fulfill you.
In the end only you know where your heart is at and you cannot go "wrong" as long as you're honest with yourself and her.
All the best!

 

I think some of the comments here are too negative!
I would talk with her, like @E31 suggested.
You should also tell her that you miss having sex with her lately.

 

I'd go with the honesty but be prepared to walk if she can't up her game. At the end of the day you want more than just a platonic friendship - and that's what it's become.

 

As soon as I read your title of the post “dump my girlfriend?” I already knew the answer was yes.

 

does she turn down your advances? if your answers are you don't try or don't kno how then I'd just say quit being a bich.. learn how to talk to her.. you failed already when you said she had good logic because "you get tired of seeing her in make" or watever the Frick.. you shoulda told er your tired of seeing how she looks now lmao.. or that it'll "spice things up a little bit".. girls like that kinda talk in most cases, at the very least she would have gotten the message..

another reason could be that she's cheating? but you don't really wanna jump to conclusions ESPECIALLY when your wrong because you'll make an ass outta yourself.. but at the very least she may just be contemplating the action... I but why??? has the sex been okay??

you may just not turn HER on!?.. you did say you still fap "once a week"(which is basically still cheating technically) in the same token maybe she's fapping..

the main thing is communication.. which you potentially need to work on based on what I've red(read)..

good luck oh and tell her how you don't want anyone else but her, and the other good things you said to us about her.. it may spark something in her‍♂️