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Looking for a mentor

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by JaMorant01, Oct 18, 2021.

  1. Oct 18, 2021 #1
    JaMorant01

    JaMorant01 Fapstronaut

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    Hey there, I'm Jules, I've been addicted to porn for a few years now and my biggest goal in life is get rid of that porn addiction that has been inducing self destruction. I'm fully commited to achieving this goal no matter what it takes and there is no doubt in my mind that I will because I will do whatever it takes to achieve it.
    I managed to be free for 190 days earlier this year but I relapsed in May and it's been going bad eversince.

    I'm not really interested in working with someone innexeperienced or halfly commited in this process, I'm looking for a mentor, someone who has it dialed down, who managed to beat his porn addiction, so I can learn from him and walk in his steps.
    I'm not too lonely in life but I feel like I have no one to talk about that stuff, therefore I never did with my real life acquaintances or family, I think finding someone to build rapport with and moving forward with this path would be something very helpful.
     
    JaMorant01, Oct 18, 2021
    JaMorant01, Oct 18, 2021
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  2. Oct 18, 2021 #2
    Jamwan14

    Jamwan14 Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, just some advice from me. So, I want you to take some time sit down and close your eyes. Think about and figure out what your relationship with porn is. You really have to do that and identify what really do you get from porn. For me, I was really fucking addicted to drugs, food, porn, jerking off etc… one day I just stopped and thought about what the fuck I’m doing and what kind of relationships I built upon with these things. After I gave good thought and identified what kind of relationship I have with these things I started to realize I didn’t even need them anymore. I started constantly telling myself this isn’t what I want and this brings huge motivation that lasts a very long time. THE KEY TO SUCESS IS PERSEVERANCE and INTEGRATION. By making this a LIFESTYLE rather than thinking it’s “short term” or “long term”. MAKE IT BECOME PART OF YOUR LIFE. Integrate that shit into your everyday life and constantly remind yourself that you don’t need that toxic shit. That’s just my point of view on how I got off drugs and lost 40 lbs and stopped jerking off. Hope you have a good day.
     
    Jamwan14, Oct 18, 2021
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