Commit suicide before becoming an incel?

hey dude ... hope you are fine ... hold on ... you can get your goals and whatsoever you want..

 

I agree with the general sentiment of this thread. Where you're at is temporary but suicide is a permanent decision. Forget all this incel nonsense. You're a human being full of capabilities with a big future ahead of you.

 

If you're referring to me, I simply mean you've got your whole life ahead of you.

 

Anytime. I check in with the board a few times each day.

 

Let the future decide. As difficult as it is, live in the present and not the future. Set up systems and take steps daily that will eventually lead to where you want to go. Then stop focusing on the future and focus on what you can do in the present.
That's a good saying in your post. I would add to it a quote by Bill Gates: "Most people overestimate what they can do in one year and underestimate what they can do in ten years." Consistency is key.
“A river cuts through rock, not because of its power, but because of its persistence.” — James N. Watkins
Patience and persistence. But you do have to put in the work...and have faith that it will pay off in the end. Faith in the process is necessary for sustained effort. It's too easy to give up otherwise. Hang in there, man. Do your best to stay positive.

 

well quit porn then. It is hard, we all fail at times.

 

I don’t think you will become an incel. You are aware of yourself. Your thought processes show you think things through. In my opinion, the only way you’d become a “violent incel” is if you got really into some sort of drugs, started drinking heavily, or converted to a radical religion where you’d truly believe God called you to kill people.

Your main problem here that I see is the porn addiction. Porn really messes with the mind more than we think.

There is a post I’ve read on here by someone named Modern Milarepa. He said that the bad thing about porn is that it is such a mental thing. All the images, visual effects, the situations, all that kind of stuff. It really messes up the mind and screws up the sexual function.

the user Modern Milarepa says that sex is done with the body, not with the mind. So by using porn, especially purposefully mentally hypnotic things such as “sissy porn”, you are creating a bad connection to sex.

you are unbalanced right now. That’s all. Unbalanced. It’s not the end of the world, you can change. Just really want to!

 

yes you are young . just focus on yourself . find hobbies that makes you happy but are healthy forexample going out for a cup of tea , walking in the park, playing cards , playing chess, playing sports , talking with friends on politics and general social issues . I mean there is so much in the world . stop chasing girls . they will come after you if they see you as a worthy partner . and stop stressing yourself . you are just a young boy . and yeah . stop PMO . I stopped it at 21 now I am turning 24 this december . PMO is the real culprit . it makes you think that this world 99 percent revolves around sex with petite barely legal extremely gorgeous actresses . well it doesnt .

 

Better to be an incel and contribute something to others and society, rather than persistently throwing a pity party for oneself, which is probably one's main problem and reason for addiction and being an incel to begin with. Just saying. Do the best with what you have and focus on others just a little more than yourself and who knows what wonderful person may come into your life one day. But, it's not going to ever happen in the ugliness of self pity and preference of suicidal wallowing thoughts. As a wise man once said, "Where there is no love, put love, and thereby draw out love." And it's altruistic love in various areas of life that is meant here, not just mere romantic interest. It's a choice and an act of willful effort. That's the only ingredient that makes one a true man.

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Good man!
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A whole 2 hours of motivating you and giving you the tools to get rid of addiction yet you focus on 2 minutes about a middle aged women with a an alcohol problem That says a lot about your ways of thinking, and trust me I've had some very dark times where I couldn't see any light so I can relate.
But are you a middle aged women with a deeply rooted drinking problem and severly psychological disorders cultivated for decades? No, you are a young dude who watched some naked people on the internet and is lacking sense of direction and self worth. That can be fixed my man, eaaasy! You just have to let go of these fears, they are just thoughts, they can't control your life. And you're right, nobody knows what the future will bring. Bad things can happen but so can good things and nobody lives in the future. Only right here and right now, and you can say right here and right know that everything is okay and is gonna be okay. Your mind is powerful, use it!

 

there you go , I have always loved watching skate boarding in movies, now you can enjoy all by yourself while skate boarding , its healthy and its fun

 

I thought an incel is someone who hates women because he can't get one

 

First off, don't kill yourself. Permanent solution for a temporary problem and all that.
Second: what's an AGP?

 

If you want to talk to me about being addicted to sissy porn, AGP, or rejection/sexual insecurity please hmu