I've found a way, personally, to overcome thoughts of relapse, you simply have to be social

When I meet people for the 1st time, I try to be at least 3 days clean to make a good first impression.
Also whenever I have a social event coming up, I think about how I would lose my mojo if I relapsed the night before. I don't want to give off that vibe when meeting people.

For me, being social reminds me of how much nofap is essential. It's like a positive feedback loop. The benefits of the nofap streak become apparent when socializing: no brain fog, charisma, presence. This in turn motivates the fapstronaut to continue his streak, and keep socializing.

 

Absolutely did the same thing. Minimizing time alone/in places you PMO and maximizing time with friends, studying/learning, and exercising makes rebooting so much easier. Doing those things releases serotonin and oxytocin, which actively inhibit dopamine, the neurotransmitter responsible for your cravings. Do these as much as possible to have easier reboots and maximize recovery!

 

Porn temporarily fills a lot of voids in a person like the need for love, pleasure, stress handling, etc

The problem is that porn only temporarily provides those things while making you depressed, anxious, etc at the same time.

But when you begin to fill the void properly by actually socializing, making friends, getting married, etc then not only are filling the voids but you can also end up reducing your urges since you no longer rely on porn for those things.

I've found the same case with me as well. This might sound stupid but, when I deleted my Reddit account, I kept relapsing a lot until I made another Reddit account and began socializing a bit there again. That's because I had no one to talk to in real life except my family (partially due to the lockdown with almost everything being closed).

So yeah, by filling the void for love, friendship, etc in real life then you can find yourself having less urges because now you no longer rely on porn to (deceptively and temporarily) provide you those things.

 

I've actually found Reddit to be a danger to my recovery. In many cases, I've encountered NSFW content on accident, even when I've unchecked the "I'm over 18 and willing to see NSFW content" preference in settings. I literally have to use a blocker on Reddit now. But I get what you're saying, it does help if you don't have options to socialize in real life.