yesterday i tried so hard

I think you should be patient with yourself and try not to get frustrated. Work on it overtime rather than trying to get it perfect right this moment.

 

Use the frustration to approach next time. Remember how it felt to not approach. I know anxiety can be bad, but it will only get better if you keep pushing.

 

Why approach the most beautiful? Approach any girl you can find comfortable to approach. See if you like their personality or not. After all outer beauty doesn't matter if we get attracted to someone's character.

 

You said she was the "most" beautiful. Bro use logic. Was every other girl there ugly? You do know that the more attractive she is, the more competition you're against, she's prolly already getting plowed and all. Be strategic. So 30 guys hit on her that night and u wanna be the 31st? Did u see chances of winning?
Either way the reason u didn't go up is because you're a human being and that's normal. You can't sit on the side and pedestalize a woman to just go up to that one the whole night. But regardless u need to watch your ego. Approach a girl you're comfortable to approach like this guy said. No one said to approach ugly girls. Here were prolly many other good looking girls that u ignored. You decide you want to get shut down by the hottest girl in a bar? That's not even a win really. Also u should be tryna approach multiple just for the experience of it. Were u the most attractive guy there? That would be a different issue if so. Man u being extra hard on yourself and putting ur ego in a point to fk yourself over.

 

He's also saying that if u talked to another attractive girl there u might hate their character.

 

Another rule u should try is after like 5-10mins don't even bother approaching. It's either u do it or u don't. Sometimes girls can sense the lack of approach and it ruins your chances when u don't do it

 

Sex and fap is only body pleasure nathing more... but one relation is something spiritually... spiritually pleasure...you cant force one spiritually relation... is not like you go shooping and get something... sometimes is like one garden, need care to grow and maintain and a litle of lucky and maby a litle prayer helps to... who knows?
Relax, just be yourself...