28 year old handsome ladies man virgin

Trust me it's so fucked... if you met me in real life no one would think I have this issue. Everyone sees me as a player. But everytime I go to fuck a girl I'm soft af. I usually just blamed it on being too drunk.

Isn't tadalafil the same as cia|is??

 

And... I just go to my family doctor for this?
I'm hesitant to go to those men's health clinics cuz I feel like they are just trying to grab as much money as they can from you.

 

I'm the OP.
I think I'll give this a try for 90 days before I ask for any pills from my doctor.

@Chokejoke35 is not OP. But looks like he's interested too

 

Interesting!
I kind of want to try NoFap hard mode for 3 months and if I see no good results by day 90 I'll go to my family doctor and see if I can do a tadalafil treatment.

As for the psychological factor the only thing that used to hold me back was my immigrant parents always screaming at me for not dating a girl of the same race... Which would mentally effect me around girls. A couple months ago I finally stood up to them and they are cool with me dating whoever I like so I got that taken care of.

 

Update:

I ALMOST FUCKING CAVED IN LAST NIGHT. I got drunk alone, went in bed, started M'ing without the P. Stopped myself before I O'ed. Thought to myself "don't fucking do it, you beta piece of shit." Then I went to go talk to one of my roomates to get my mind off it.

Note to self: no more getting drunk alone. Def a trigger. The numbing feeling of getting drunk is nice, but not alone, only with friends.
Also being bored/alone is definitely a trigger. I have a very busy life style so during the day I have no time to do it. Its always right before bed at nights that is a struggle. I gotta start watching a show or something to distract my mind until I go to bed.

I have gone without porn for 1.5 years. But I still MO'ed once a week to once every 2 weeks. Still have ED.
I really hope not MO'ing is the final piece of the puzzle because simply cutting porn isnt enough.

 

Update:
I FUCKED UP. Met up with a girl from tinder. Went from innocent pumpkin patch to back to my place. Told her straight up my dick aint working cuz of PIED. Still jerked me till I came... Twice... Resetting the fucking counter.... FUCK.
No more coming back to my place until I'm done 90 days at least.... :/

Should I just delete Tinder/Bumble for 90 days until my shit is working again?

Side note: today was a great day at the gym. Hit a new PR for bench. Also went on a jog today. Ran 5k in 25min. Havent ran in legit 5 years so I'm glad I still got it. The runners high I got after almost felt like the same high u get from O'ing. Its a great relief. So I'd recommend you if you need to O then go on a nice long jog haha

 

Update:
Halloween weekend was a busy one. Had a huge party, but had to avoid this one chick who wanted to sleep with me... Nothing feels worse than shying away from a girl who wants you because you know you can't perform.
No urges or anything to PMO.
No morning woods yet but I'm only on day 10.
Today I felt sad, worried I'll be forever alone. I really hope this NoFap hard mode can cure me.

My doctor gave me some blue pills for my ED a couple months back, and to my surprise it didn't work. I used it 4 different times. I did some research online and psychologists who have been researching this have noted that people with PIED won't be able to get it up with the blue pill because its not a physcial issue. The brain is the issue, from years of porn abuse the neuropathways have wired themselves for the dopamine release from porn stimuli. Luckily the brain is plastic meaning it can rewire itself which is why we are all here. I heard the magic number is 90 days for most people. Research showed tho for people like me that had access to porn at a young age it usually takes longer than 90 days, so well see what happens.

 

First day of No Nut November! Lets do this! If you need an accountability partner feel free to message me.

 

Thanks for the share! I got none of those fortunately. I just have severe PIED.