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I don't get HOCD?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by PatrickBasedman, Nov 5, 2021.

  1. PatrickBasedman

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    Hi guys. Sorry if this is rude. But I really dont get it!

    What is HOCD? Like I looked it up and I still dont understand? Whats the difference between it and just being LGBTQ? I mean I can get watching weird stuff, one of the reasons I'm here is to do that! But gay stuff? idk!
     
  2. Usernameallowed

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    What trans porn .

    I don't get hocd either.
    I'm not gay and I know I'm not gay .
    I can bust a nut to some weird porn have had a few times been fairly grossed out . Usually because there are things you will see that you don't want to see. But your a pa . Don't get that with girls . Usually because you love everything about them . So no shame and disgust . Not into gay porn or guys in general . But some trans are kinda sexy looking I mean if they legitimately look like cis gender women.

    When it comes to genitals there's a gray area.

    A chick with a dick is still 95% female visually. And male brain is very visual . As the saying goes once your hard anything goes .

    I straight up could not bang a trans in reality . Because I would see the wood for the trees sort of speak

    Porn . Trans porn just looks like regular porn except there's no male face in the visual .

    I don't get hocd because I'm not gay
     
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  3. IGY

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    Gay guys do not get HOCD, only straight guys get that.
     
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  4. PatrickBasedman

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    Thanks for the reply! I didnt realise HOCD was to do with trans stuff, I just thought it was related to gay attraction or obsessive thoughts. Thanks for the info and opinion!
     
  5. PatrickBasedman

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    Now I'm a bit confused! Am I not understanding what HOCD is? What is it to you?
     
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  7. PatrickBasedman

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    I looked up what it was, found sources that contradict! Some saying its real, some not! Some even say its a homohobic term! Just trying to learn from people on here thats all!
     
  8. IGY

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    If you have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), you'll usually experience frequent obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviours.

    An obsession is an unwanted and unpleasant thought, image or urge that repeatedly enters your mind, causing feelings of anxiety, disgust or unease.

    A compulsion is a repetitive behaviour or mental act that you feel you need to do to temporarily relieve the unpleasant feelings brought on by the obsessive thought.

    For example, someone with an obsessive fear of being burgled may feel they need to check all the windows and doors are locked several times before they can leave their house. If someone has Homosexual Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (HOCD), it follows the same pathology.

    However, the anxiety of a gay male is not about being gay. It is more about the fear of coming out to family, friends or in a community that are intolerant might reject them. They do not have to compulsively 'check' if they are gay.
     
  9. PatrickBasedman

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    I see. Thanks for the info! I think I understand now.
     
  10. Usernameallowed

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    Thats ridiculous. That's a very black and white way to describe it .. obviously gay guys won't get hocd . But your basically saying if you don't have hocd your gay lol . No hocd because I do t have an obcession about whether I'm gay straight or bi .

    You don't get hocd because you are gay , you also don't get hocd because you know you aren't .

    Hocd is guys who have obsessive compulsive traits and start questioning there sexuality . I'm already passed that I'm not gay. I never questioned my sexuality but had some hocd briefly when I watched trans porn. Which didn't last long because it's official I'm not gay
     
  11. IGY

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    No I am not lol.
     
  12. Demodectic

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    Thanks,m good thread that explains the HOCD and I did not understand it either until i read this
     
  13. PatrickBasedman

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    This makes a lot of sense. Thank you!
     
  14. PatrickBasedman

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    Yeah it is pretty confusing lol. But I think I get it now.
     

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