Need help breaking free from Bambi Hypno

You are right nofap 90 will not work. Only nofap forever will. It does not matter how many times you relapse, what matter is how many times you pick yourself up from that shit and keep going forward. Everyone with addiction lacks control over impulses, you can not excuse yourself from nofap because of that. We all went through phases of feeling hopeless but as long as you keep pushing, you will eventually break free.

 

Ive recently discovered that I’ve had adhd all my life and that does come with poor impulse control and up and down mood swings. Also 70% of people with adha use sex as a way of self regulating emotions. I was horny and drawn to sex from an early age. Fascinated by sex and contact. Maybe this was down to stressful parents or feeling I was missing something emotionally. I’ve had 5 different counsellors in the past some concentrating and assisting me on the Hard-mode system. I had a lot of positives from nofap but never got past 55 days and would relapses hard. I agree that we must keep picking our selves back up and trying again. But there is that saying about: the definition of madness is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. I’m a very strong willed stubborn person who’s quit drink, drugs, smoking pretty easily. But sex is very complex and also a natural part of our design. So we’re trying to work on getting meds for the adhd and deal with traumas that have led to this self sabotaging behaviours rather than just not O”ing for 90 days. Nofap is great but some people will be suffering from mental health conditions and hyper sexuality could be a symptom of a bigger problem

 

Stop thinking that you are the only one who struggles with this. Most of us have significant problems mentally, that is why we are here. It is not an excuse.

In my opinion going for 7 days etc is just your addicted brain trying to convince that it is okay to pmo. I see it as a pathway to going back to your old self. But if it works for you then who am I to judge. In my opinion pmo is always harmful, even in small quantities like once a week. That is why I do not think you should start the 7 day thing.

What are you doing in your personal life, are you journaling, have you found out why you relapse, do you exercise, how do you spend your time off? These are questions that helped me reach good streaks. I recommend trying since as you said doing something the same way and expecting a different result is insanity.

 

Also staying accountable to someone helps, you should give that a try.

 

Yea I do all that, what I’m saying is that just not “PMOing doesn’t really fix the root cause of the addiction/compulsion well it didn’t for me! I’m not by any means saying that we should be watching porn at all. But maybe getting treatment for mental health problems might be a good start rather than just using will power to not have a wank!

 

Of course one should also work on his mental health alongside nofap, why would he not? Fapping and porn cause anxiety, ocd like behavior etc so it sounds counterproductive to do.

 

I think I get you now. You are stille doing nofap, but when relapsing you will only use "normal" porn. It could help you to get rid of the hypno stuff for sure. Are you still planning to do nofap after you get rid of the hypno stuff? I strongly recommend this, since you could fall back to the hypno trap after normal pmo will not cut it anymore. I hope that you will find success in your journey. God bless.

 

You can try this "hard reset" hypnosis video. It's supposed to "remove all triggers and effects".



Just be careful that you don't let this get you back into the habit of listening to hypnosis videos. By the way, a person can't be hypnotized unless they are willing.

 

This is true. First of all, you need to acknowledge the fact that Bambi hypnosis can be broken. I have seen people coming out of it and there are many instances of not coming out, but you must try to remove the false belief that bambi hypnosis can't be broken. And remove all the triggers, usually you would start acting like a bambi if you get dressed, so remove and destroy all such materials related to crossdressing. Finally bambi hypnosis is just like any other addiction, just like an alcoholic is hypnotised to alcohol, you are hypnotised to bambi files, so all you've gotta do is follow some strong strategy of nofap and get out of this. Ofcourse there would be slips, but try to come into senses as soon as possible instead of being in the trance.....

If you are still having lot of problems, I'll introduce you to someone who has come out of it and maybe they can guide you through the process of planting blocks in your brain to stop getting triggered.

 

Nofap for 90 days is the only way you can get out of this. It's the way you start healing.

Your 7 days streaks won't do nothing to your compulsion.

 

That shit is poison. Just understand that doing anything is better than spending a second on that. You could try and step down from doing that by doing other things that are pleasurable, but not porn. Anything porn-esque will funnel you back towards it. Go find hobbies or watch tv and stuff, and do everything you can to stay healthy and push past it. Do the cold turkey/blocker x to lock all your devices and choose a password you can't remember.

 

Hi man,
I was involved in all kind of erotic hypnosis videos, sissy hypnosis and whatever kind of stuff.
I know about these bambi hypno videos. They are "just another kind of hypnotic porn".
I've fought myself out of it, and my intention is to never go back ever again.
I took a lot of time to write all kind of information into my journal.
Knowing why you do something and knowing what is behind this kind of videos has helped me tremendously to become free. Truth will set you free.

My journal is here.
It will not be an easy way as your sexuality is now linked deeply to all kind of associations.
But I guarantee you: it will be worth once you really wants to get out of that pit.
I would like to advice you to read a lot of information about this addiction and how the brain works.
I would highly recommand you to start keeping a journal. Connect with others so they can help you and encourage you. Another thing is to seek for an accountability partner in real life if possible.
You can't do this alone.

Make a choice, and then develop a determination like a lion.
That 's not will power, that's a decision that's rooted in the deepest part of yourself.

 

Hey man I was really hooked on sissy hypnosis as well, used Bambi numerous times. You can check out my story here: Am I a Sissy?? (Actually a good story with happy ending, trust me, read the whole thing)

I know how bad sissy hypnosis stuff is, especially Bambi sleep. It's eerily similar to methods use by religious groups in America to "cure" gay people; this process is called gay conversion therapy.

The good news is that gay conversion therapy and sissy hypno (including Bambi Sleep) cannot change or alter your sexuality. Whatever way you truly are is still in there, albeit buried down under a bunch of junk. You can definitely get those desires at the front of your mind and live the life you want to.

The bad news is that conversion therapy and sissy hypno often still have disastrous effects on the mental health of people that undergo them. Sissy hypno functionally is porn, so you can obviously get addicted and experience the effects of porn addiction, like PIED, compulsive use, warping sexual tastes, etc.

Sissy hypno worse though because it promotes behaviors and relationship dynamics that you really don't want to do. You really don't want to be some guy's slave, you really don't want to be humiliated, and you really don't want to be a girl; unfortunately, the "lizard brain, the part of you that gets addicted to porn, persuades the smart, rational part of your brain to except whatever is showing on the screen to get the dopamine spike. It may ease the tension during orgasm, but the rest of the day, your lizard brain is saying "Being a sissy is great, let's do it again" and your rational brain is saying "Wtf no that shit is weird" af. Since the different parts of the brain are not in agreement, it leads to anxiety, depression, and a host of other mental health issues. To alleviate the mental pressures, you either "accept" the sissy lifestyle (which will probably make you depressed amongst other things because it's not who you are) or you watch more porn for the temporary relief, which only gets you more addicted.

My little theory blurb may not be correct, but we can agree sissy porn is a dangerous drug that cycles you lower and lower in mental health and sanity.

However, sissy hypno only feels this way because your brain has become wired to it over time, and that wiring can change.

The first step is to reboot. 90 days with no porn, stimulation, and obviously orgasm. It's tough, and you'll feel like you're going insane, but it is necessary. The reboot allows much of the neural networks in your brain wired to sissy stuff to literally shrivel up and die.

The second step the rewire. After 90 days, you need to start rewiring your brain with positive sexual activity. This starts at the bottom with simple socializing and flirting. Then you get to dating, hugging, and kissing. Then you start having sex frequently, which is gonna feel really good, wiring your brain to all of those activities. The reboot takes down the wiring for sissy hypno, the rewire builds up wiring for normal activities.

Steps 1 and 2 repeat in a cycle. You reboot, rewire with consistent sex for a while, then when you're out of luck you go abstinent for a while. These steps continue on and on.

The next step is the one no one likes: the relapse. No one wants or expects to do it, but it happens anyway. It's important to understand that relapsing is not good per say, but it's an expected part of recovery. When you do inevitably relapse, don't give in to the thoughts of "I failed so I might as well relapse a lot". Once you get a clear head, snap out of it. If anything, just give yourself a quick MO, then start another reboot and rewire.

After every relapse you should reboot for 30 or 90 days, depending on the severity. If you're not having consistent sex you shouldn't be PMOing, so that time can be considered a reboot. I think as long as your relapses meet certain criteria, the cycle of rebooting and rewiring will continually tear down the brain's wiring to porn and continually build up wiring for real, positive activities.

"What is the criteria for relapses": I have had relapses during my recovery, but they are all decreasing in both frequency and intensity. They are becoming more spaced apart, and they are becoming less intense over time. With that formula, my cravings for sissy porn will have to decrease in time.

 

The best thing you can do is to consult a psychotherapist or sex therapist if you can afford it. It's really the best way to fix your shit especially considering that you really seem distressed right now.

Otherwise you can look into OCD. A good place to start is Mark Freeman's Youtube channel. He has a playlist on OCD. Basically you're stuck in an obsessive-compulsive loop. You need to learn the right way to get out of it.

I did a psychotherapy myself and I used to have OCD and HOCD and had lost sense of my identity because of mental health issues, including PMO addiction, including hypno and femdom stuff. Now it doesn't do anything to me anymore. I used to believe I was an incel submissive simp but in reality it turns out that I like dominating women... I'm not saying that being a dom is better than being a sub, but it's to show that those videos are just BS. It's OK to be a dom, it's OK to be a sub, and it's OK to be a switch, as long as you know that's what you are deep down. No hypno file will help you figure that out.

No one else but you can figure out what your sexuality is. Those hypno files are just a mind game. It's not because they say you're something that you really are that. You just play along because it procures a different type of experience but ultimately it's just a role play.

I disagree with the statements that sissy hypno is "the worst stuff" and "the worst drug". They are "powerful" only so long as you give them power. If you make it a big deal, it will be a big deal. That's how you get trapped into the obsession-compulsion pattern.

My guess is if you feel that miserable watching or listening to this stuff, it's because deep down it is not aligned with your true sexuality.

PS: I think you should also document yourself on the effects of hypnosis. They perniciously make you believe it's irreversible and all that crap but it's really not. The effects are quite temporary actually.

Just chill man, you're not stuck in your predicament forever. Like I said reach out to a therapist or look into OCD and hypnosis. Knowledge is power.