Dating apps, sex is who you are

Yes, dating apps can bring out the worst animalistic side of people. It is never fulfilling. There is always the craving for another match, another conversation, another experience. It's a lot like porn in the sense it appeals to our desires for sex and novelty.

I find it very telling that the only times I feel a desire to install dating apps is when I'm felling down and crave some kind of validation. During good days I don't even remember that they exist.

 

I met my now wife on a dating website. Albeit this was 10 years ago before things like tinder existed and it really was a website, not an app.

 

I highly agree with what your saying MM. I have traveled to the bad corner of dating apps over the course of last year, half way threw this current year until I met a Woman at work. I have noticed soo many toxic Woman, Woman who are obviously not giving a frick frack about what they do. Act like they need to be a queen. Some profile photos I've seen basically come say, have sex with me. I noticed how ego driven they are. If you fixate on a bad topic about your self, then why have a profile?

One of the worst profiles I've seen was a woman saying. "I am very toxic and you can't handle my Toxicity we can't be together". That is what their profile heading was. She obviously needed help...

 

The craziest and dangerous woman I dated was presented to me by a close friend of my mother. She was hot as fuck, model hot but was even more crazy. I couldn't run away from her faster.
The best woman I met (currently my girlfriend) appeared in a dating app, so is not the source.. is the woman.
Take your time to know the other person, no matter the source.

In the sex matter, i can say that the crasiest woman in bed were the crasiest woman in life.
Casually have sex with crazy, they are amazing in bed... but settle for the "boring" ones in bed that are beautifull and amazing in life on the outside but also on the inside.

 

I’m sorry I guess I don’t understand.


There can be good toxic and then bad toxic such as party and get high all day kind of regimen which is the exact vibe I was getting from this woman. I understand for them to be up front in their views. But it’s like if you don’t agree or say what they want to hear they put you on a friend zoned or diss like list.


One example I can think of is cosplayers. I remember this toxicity I felt when I was at a convention a few times. Every one had something to say and they were full of them selfs about other people not paying attention. Especially Rave night where a Woman cut everyone in line and I had to stop myself from yelling at her.

 

After my 90 day reboot I am excited to begin with a dating app after reading your post. I am in need of a female companion in my life.

 

I don't like dating apps. When I am in one I always have a considarble number of matchs, so I recieve messeges from some womans and I want to send a message and date with others ones. This make me feel a lot of anxiety for checking if I have new messages or find another match. For that I usually use them for not too long. When I finnaly uninstall it, my mind get again.

There is a lot of places to find womans likde dance clases, reading groups, churchs (If you are religious), bars, etc. But for my experience I don't recomend dattings apps.