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So I've been confronted with this...

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Deleted Account, Nov 10, 2021.

  1. As with many people, the people at work like to talk lots of nonsense. Even worse in a workshop as where I work. I've been randomly asked by one of my colleagues if I masturbate. Immediately I replied with saying no, thinking that it is a terrible thing to ask someone. Rudely another colleague invited himself to the conversation and told me that he knows I masturbate because he can see it in my face. I felt terrible. I know I'm on day 75 of no PMO.
    Did he say that just to upset me or can you really see in someone's face if he masturbates?
    Its bothering me. I didn't lie when I said I don't masturbate, because I don't (anymore).
    Furthermore have I been asked if I watch porn. I'm too honest of a guy, so I said I don't watch porn anymore. Then they said that I must watch porn because its good for you. I just laughed.
    So my question is if you can see in someone's face that he is someone who masturbates. If something absurd like this is actually true, what can you see in someone's face and how long will it take for your face to "evolve" so that you don't look like someone who masturbates anymore?
    I'm slowly on my way for three months clean.
     
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  2. CaptainStrat

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    They’re yanking your chain. No one can see it on your face. There are no such clues. He made a bad joke.
     
  3. FirefromAbove

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    What he said^

    Sounds like work place ballbusting. Usually means they like you. Don’t be afraid to dish it back.
     
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  4. That doesn't make sense to me. Is there really a work environment in this world where that's, without any previous talking about the context, something to ballbust about? It just seems so unrelated, even if magically his face somehow had universal clues of being an onanist.
    @AuwL0ng I don't understand man. Did you talk about your struggle with PMO with them?
     
  5. i'll confirm though, there is literally no sign like that on someones face or anywhere else. I think it is ballbusting, but I don't understand how they know about your struggle with PMO. Could just be a massive coincidence or something... Americans are weird
    Idk where else could someone ballbust you by asking "do you jerk off?" unless in some country where it is taboo or something
     
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  6. FirefromAbove

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    I think so yeah.

    At least in the environments, I've been in.

    For example. I was once standing close to this dude while we were looking at a computer and out of nowhere completely unsolicited. Someone yelled, "If you get any closer you gotta kiss him!"

    Males especially are like this, it's not bullying it's more of joking I guess.

    Once they act real nice to your or start actually harassing you, then you know they don't like you.
     
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  7. CaptainStrat

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    You obviously haven’t worked in construction.
     
  8. FirefromAbove

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    Absolutely brutal lmao
     
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  9. depeche69

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    You shouldn't answer this question. If they ask something like this again, you should answer: i don't think the work environment is the correct place for questions like this.

    That's the same like to ask if there daughter is swallowing cum.
     
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  10. No I didn't talk to them about it at all. They just randomly started talking shit. I didn't even have something like that on my mind. They started. They are just so inappropriate.
     
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  11. Fully agree. Thanks for replying.
     
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