Porn really makes you question yourself sometimes

Usernameallowed · Nov 13, 2021

I don't mean as in gay or even bi .

I've watched straight porn for about 18 years . Saw ts porn about 9 years ago but stopped watching it after 2 weeks . Then about 9 years later stumbled across it and started watching it more frequently .
Girls on cam and ts porn was then what I would watch .

When I watch ts porn it's all from the same role it would be with cis gendered women . Not the other way around .

Anyway when I watch afterwards I think what the fuck. What the fuck is wrong with me . I know I'm just human and sexual deviant

I think am I lying to myself about something . I know I'm not . But you tw the same everyrime I watch it I ask how can I watch it and not gay . How does watching it effect my attraction to women . Does it distort my perception of women .

The next day I'm At that point I'm dissociatied about sexuality ( usually because of previous fapping) then before long I get that vibe again . And before long. I'm looking at naked girls on cam and it's instant hard on again .

Then I'll be going pmo for 2 days and by day 3 it's the same cycle fap to girls on cam then ts porn .

That's some fucked up

Randombro · Nov 13, 2021

Trans porn is the heroin of all porn genres for straight men with perverted tendencies

Deleted Account · Nov 13, 2021

Sure, the reason is that you make decision that are questionable (by your own standards). Or they're just wrong, you know it but you do it anyway. In other settings this can expand your experience and worldview and so on. We don't do what our parents told us through our whole life - that's perfectly normal.
But with porn we come to a point where we just break boundaries for the purpose of lust and rush. And we start to hurt ourselves.

Deleted Account · Nov 14, 2021

WildEntheology said: ↑

We know that porn corrupts our sexuality. It can take straight men who have always been attracted to girls and warp their sexuality so now they only watch gay porn. It can also do the same for gay men, warping their sexuality so they can only watch straight porn. It's a crazy thing that can warp your sexuality into even worse positions if you let it.

With that being said, you have to stop judging yourself for your fetishes whether they are porn-induced or "real." No amount of shame or self-judgement is going to get you toward your authentic sexuality because shame and self-judgement is what drives us into addiction in the first place. If you want to be free of addiction, you have to free yourself from toxic shame.

So for sake of argument, let's say you're really attracted to trans-women. Okay...what now? Like...is that really so bad? Are you exclusively attracted to trans-women? The answer is no because you were always attracted to women before the addiction. And even if your porn addiction has progressed to the point where you can only watch trans-women, that is just addiction. We know that people who stop watching porn eventually lose many of these fetishes. So if that's true then if you don't want to sleep with trans-women...you just won't sleep with trans-women. Then why be ashamed? Why be afraid?

Do you see what I'm doing here? This addiction makes us think irrationally. It makes us feel fear and feel ashamed when there really is no logical reason to feel these emotions. Most of us started watching porn when we were kids. That means our sexuality was shaped by this addiction long before we could have reasonably been expected to know the danger. How can you be ashamed when you were essentially victimized by porn as a kid? You couldn't have possibly known better. Do you see how illogical that is to shame yourself for this addiction and for these fetishes?

There is nothing inherently wrong with being attracted to trans-women and yet we somehow interpret it to be the worst thing in the world. Who gives a fuck if you like jerking off to trans-women? Even if it isn't the porn, why does that actually matter? Are you beginning to see how irrational that is? Do you think people should be ashamed of being attracted to the same sex? If you don't then why are you shaming yourself for being attracted to trans-women? Why is that such a shameful thing?

If you really want to get passed this addiction, then you have to let go of this shame man. I'm not saying you should be attracted to trans-women, or that you should start sleeping with them, or anything like that. What I'm saying is that there is no reason to be ashamed of it. You are literally doing the shame to yourself by beating yourself for being into it. Stop doing that. I know that's way easier said than done, but every time the shame comes up take a minute to just breathe slowly, calm yourself down, and make the conscious decision that there is nothing wrong with you for wanting to watch trans-porn. Over time this mindset will help you get away from porn forever and then your sexuality will return to normal.

At that point you'll have the rest of your life to be with the kind of people you want to be with, whoever they really are. And the best part is because you've dealt with your shame, you won't be ashamed. By definition.
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Sex with trans girls beats trans porn any day

im_done · Nov 17, 2021

I've jerked off to stuff that I would never try in reality. Awful.

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