I don’t understand karezza…

I do it with my wife, it is hard to do well without a lot of focus. I learned it from a book called the Gentlemans guide to Karezza sex. I do not feel very well after an ejaculation, normally. If you like sex for more than the orgasm which I do it’s worth it

 

How do you guys know when to finish sex if there is no orgasm goal?

 

Whenever I feel tired or she feels tired or we both feel satisfied. My satisfaction is usually I feel the edginess is gone. She is allowed to orgasm in our case, I’m just retaining to meet my goal

 

[QUOTE = "The Pennsylvanian, post: 3186388, member: 379183"] Siempre que me siento cansada o ella se siente cansada o ambos nos sentimos satisfechos. Mi satisfacción es que normalmente siento que el nerviosismo se ha ido. Ella puede tener un orgasmo en nuestro caso, solo estoy reteniendo para cumplir con mi objetivo [/ QUOTE]
How do you do not to ejaculate? some advices?

 

@modern milarepa seems to be the specialist in this forum.

 

it's best if you only retain yourself from orgasm in my experience.. so in short it's only a you thing! but she receives extreme pleasure while your pleasure is in pleasuring her.. whenever you want to no less.. meaning since you haven't orgasmed at all, you can come back to her an hour or more later after doing whatever it is you decide to do and keep giving her orgasms

 

Karezza is abstaining from orgasm for both of you.
Orgasm messes up with the neurochemicals that are responsible for mood regulation.
There is an adjustment period for both.

Karezza is rewiring the brain to enjoy the subtle effect of skin to skin touch.
Let her read Marnia Robinson's book ( cupids poisoned arrow)
it will explain the side effect of femald orgasm.

 

I love slow Sex without Orgasm. I love Hard Sex without Orgasm. I love Sex in any way. I like the Feelings on my Skin. I dont need to cum every Time i have Sex. I dont understand why Orgasm should be the Goal in Sex....
Sensations become more intense if you do it that Way. Why should a few Seconds be more pleasing than Minutes of Sex?

When to know when u are finished? If your Penis gets soft again, then ...

 

the thing about kareeza is even if you don't want to orgasm the chance of you having multiple orgasms is extremely high but you'll maintain an erection.. at least in my experience.. my goal was to make my Significant other cum until I built up the self control to stop before I completely fully orgasm {because it is very addictive as you can imagine} but it's even better to come back with complete full energy and getting the feeling of finishing where I left off at any time or multiple times a day all the while keeping my energy and motivation

 

I think I tend to agree with your partner on this. Since you are still new to Karezza, trying it out while still abstaining from full blown s*x is going to be quite challenging. If you as a couple have decided to completely abstain from s*x during your reboot, then stay with it. After your reboot, feel free to give it a shot. Until then, feel free to find out more about Karezza, but refrain from trying it out during the reboot.

Our brains are so conditioned into kiss kiss bang bang style of intimacy, that to move away from it takes a lot of relearning both for our brains and our bodies.