Will 'NoFap' cure my kinks? (I don't get aroused from normal porn)

Hey All,

I'm in a bad situation. My porn addiction led me down the long path of more extreme stuff (as most of you know). Basically I'm at the point now where I dabbled in Findom/Domme kink and now I find nothing else really arouses me.

I can watch porn and not get a boner. I can see girls and not get a boner. Yet, if i start looking at Findom content on Twitter or start interacting with a Findom, I can feel the blood start pumping and the hard on coming. It's like I've re-wired my brain to only get aroused by gross kinky shit and I hate it.

Sure, I could definitely start masturbating and get hard to normal porn and cum but it's like more effort and doesnt compare to findom stuff.

Will NoFap help me cure this? I just want to be fucking normal, I want to see a hot girl in the gym and feel myself getting a boner, I'd even be happy to be extremely aroused by normal porn as a start.

I'm currently on NoFap day 20 and nothing has changed yet in regards to this. I browsed twitter at normal porn and it was ok, then I looked at findom stuff and I started to get a boner ( I know this was risky and could have led to relapse but I was OK)

Any advice? I just want to be a normal guy.

Thanks

 

So is looking a relapse? I thought it was looking with M & O?

I ask because I have to look a porn for my job so technically I relapse everyday. Will NoFap still work for me if I still look at porn? I'm obviously just looking and not pmo.