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Need Help Stopping Wet Dreams Forever

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by DaveyCrockett, Nov 26, 2021.

  1. DaveyCrockett

    DaveyCrockett Fapstronaut

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    Hey NoFap Forum,

    I've got a problem that I really don't know what to do about.

    I've been having frequent wet dreams which occur more often the longer I go on NoFap. Over the past 3 years, I've been on and off long NoFap streaks. I need help because I keep having these wet dreams, and they've been going on for at least 3 years now.

    I've seen two (yes, 2) different doctors about this and one of them did absolutely nothing whatsoever (besides a urinalysis which was inconclusive). The other doctor I saw nearly a year ago, after another inconclusive urinalysis, prescribed me oxybutynin which is meant to prevent incontinence (urinating in sleep). However, even when I double-dose on oxybutynin, I still have wet dreams.

    I don't know what to do other than abstain from water a few hours before bed, but sometimes a wet dream occurs anyway. I don't have any sexual history whatsoever. I used to edge a lot...but I haven't fapped in almost 2 years now. Sometimes, I'll watch TV or see a hot chick or something like that, and then later on that night without entertaining impure thoughts at all, I end up having a wet dream.

    I should add that the actual fluid that is released smells and looks often times like seminal fluid, yet sometimes it is more watery/liquid and doesn't smell too strongly of urine (the actual fluid released from these nocturnal emissions is more like water rather than like semen).

    I'm just concerned that this is something that'll keep happening forever. I need this to stop because I don't think that doctors know what to do. Has anyone had this issue before? I would appreciate any suggestions at all.
     
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  2. Kadampa

    Kadampa Fapstronaut

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    Hi I have similar experience. I'm on 3,5 year on monk mode, and I have frequent nocturnal emissions, sometimes are with erotic dream sometimes not.
    In my case sexual urge control my life through 17 years of my experience PMO and MO that is a long period. I created through loosing control on my life many bad habits and neuro pathways that's lust use to keep me bound tightly to addiction.
    When I started my jou
     
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  3. Kadampa

    Kadampa Fapstronaut

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    Just recently I found NoFap and I understand how complex I have work to do to create happy and free person.
    I write this only because the addiction is hidden on deeper level of consciousness and dream world is bringing this from deep down, but it is only my theory.
     
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  4. Kadampa

    Kadampa Fapstronaut

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    It's not enough to go in hard mode, strong will not working during sleep. And I know that nocturnal emissions suck my energy and make unbalance. We need understand our self and understand our enemy.
    First we need recognise state of being triggered, lust have many layers, we need to be conscious during the day of it. I can say that It can be lust chronic feeling after long period of addiction we think that we stop watch and doing but it's still there and is couse nocturnal emission we can't control our sleep ( most of us)and loose battle.
    But fro kindness of NoFap and experience of my brother's I get tools to conquer my nocturnal emissions and win war.
    There is many post here about nocturnal emissions the best in my opinion are translation of Sour eagle and Modern Milarepa.
    Cold shower before sleep if you feel triggered will help.
    Sometimes I had 2 or 3 nocturnal emissions one night Then when I get first.I will take cold shower to prevent next ones.
    There are some qi Gon experience that stretch your bladder that helps.
    Important is to connect to yourself, and ask your pure nature to heal yourself and other brothers, who struggle like we do.
    Take our power back that we give up in some point our life.
    When I decided to fight with nocturnal emissions they increase before I have around two or three times in month, now every 3 days, that lust fight back to keep grip at night
    To gain freed from addiction- conscious and unconscious need to be free. And work on unconscious mind is key to freedom this is my path to free myself and help others.
    I wish that you get free from wet dreams and happy - because all of as looking for this.
     
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  5. Bawa

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    i hate this wet dream.
    when ever i sleep thinking about this sh*t there is probable a chance to happen, yesterday early in the night nearly 11:00pm as it is about to happen i quickly wake up without ejaculating. by that time i am in fear to go back to sleep again, because as i observed in most cases it uses to happen in the late night around 3am then i usually set an alarm before that time.
     
  6. koolpal

    koolpal Fapstronaut

    Sounds like prostatic congestion.

    They have some suggestions here:
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/congestion.299632/#post-2850517

    The stuff coming out is not necessarily seminal fluid (seminal vesicles), but prostatic fluid (prostate).

    After a couple of years and streaks of NoFap, the wet dreams became less frequent (once or twice a year).
    Instead, I'd get prostatorrhea (also mentioned above) after urnination.

    Usually I'd do some yoga to relax that area when I feel that congestion.
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/koolpal-chapter-9-reflection.190806/#post-1635812

    Hope that helps.
     
  7. Why does wet dreams bother you so much?
     

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