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SOMEONE PLEASE HELP

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Dakk304, Nov 30, 2021.

  1. Nov 30, 2021 #1
    Dakk304

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    Okay so I have to make this post because I’m going through a mental storm of negative and confusing thoughts… I started watching P when I was 11 years old (I’m 21 now) and it was ALWAYS vanilla P and pictures of hot women for 8-9 years and then suddenly I started developed a fetish for Blowjob videos and then I dabbled into some sissy hypno videos and I all of a sudden wondered what it would be like to give a blowjob even though I’ve never been attracted to men at all I’ve always been straight and thethought of giving a blowjob disgusts me but my mind wants me to do it anyways…. Can someone tell me what’s wrong with me please??? Will I be like this forever I don’t know what to do and it gives me anxiety andpanic attacks. God bless.
     
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  2. Nov 30, 2021 #2
    Fdh112

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    Hi, stay calm, what you are going through is called hocd, it will be a very difficult period in your life, many of us are going through it because of porn and what disadvantages it brings, try to give up porn movies altogether and focus on everything else, treat your thoughts positively, try to accept that it is just a thought and an impression and can't change anything just to trap you, if you need help I am very active on Nofap and I will answer
     
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  3. Nov 30, 2021 #3
    James Sanchez

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    Hi bro, what is happening to you is a side effect of the excessive consumption of pornography, I will not tell you that it is normal but I will tell you that it is perfectly curable.
    Let me explain, when we see pornography the brain likes it and for this reason it releases immense amounts of dopamine, but the brain adapts and that stimulus that generated too much pleasure begins to generate less and less pleasure and that is how we go from seeing 2 people having relationships to see things that are too strange and sick, since the brain is already used to "normal" and scales sick levels.

    I have even heard of people who become homosexuals, zoophiles, pedophiles, etc.

    This can be cured by stopping watching pornography ... but the time you will need will depend on how ruined your mind is right now, I'm sure that with a few months you will heal, I hope I have explained you well friend.


    Psdt: I don't speak English very well so forgive the mistakes
     
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  4. Nov 30, 2021 #4
    Dakk304

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    Your English is good and thank you for giving me hope I just watched a video from a neurologist that said it takes 3 years for a brain to heal from from porn addiction but I’m definitely willing to quit because it’s made me consider things that are so outlandish to who I was before… I mean I was borderline homophobic when this started and I still am not attracted to guys whatsoever but I’ve done this shit so long normal shit isn’t novelty anymore. I wish the 11 year old me knew what this would end up doing to me
     
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  5. Nov 30, 2021 #5
    Beekind

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    Quit this shit before it destroys your life.
    You will heal, but it will take some time
     
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  6. Nov 30, 2021 #6
    Dakk304

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    Did you go through this yourself
     
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