Any guys get the feeling they're invisible to girls?

I think we need a sticky for posts like this. Tell us about your life.

 

They never have. If all you are doing is going to work, looking at porn, and playing video games (or otherwise wasting your time) then it isn’t all that reasonable for you to expect women to notice you. The rule of thumb is to get busy living a kick ass life. You get to decide what that looks like. For me, its been getting a new job, joining a volleyball league, learning new songs on my guitar, spending a lot more time in the gym, and participating in 12 step meetings (I am a recovering drug addict who wasn’t doing anything about it). I’m still single, but I feel a lot better about my life. I also read The Rational Male. It was a painful read, but I am pretty sure everything Rollo has to say is true.

 

Lucky you here gyms are closed so the only option is to train outside at 2 - 3 degrees it makes you tuff and mentally strong so i don't mind

 

What kind of girl do you want? What kind of guy does the kind of girl you want want?

Are you honestly that kind of guy? And if not, what's keeping you from being that kind of guy?

I realized that I can't be complaining that I haven't found the girl of my dreams if I'm not actively working towards being the kind of man she would respect and desire.

Start with you. Do what you need to do to respect yourself. When you're solid with your life, then you can focus on finding the girl to invite into your life. But if you don't live a life you respect, it'll be hard to find someone else who will.

 

If you don’t make effort to change things nothing will change.

 

When you are out to get a woman, women get elusive.

If you are out to build a successful life, in business, finance, fitness, hobbies, and other things, the women will come with no effort.

 

I've read a nice comment about this topic:
Love in these days are distributed like money in a capitalism society. Some has a lot, many have not so much

 

If I were you, I wouldn't spend any time learning about attraction.

That is going to be solved when you can improve your life, mainly your finances.

Be the best at something. Work hard. Nothing can stop you, not even autism.

Actually autistic people have an edge, they develop incredible talents, more than so called "normals".

The normals have a disadvantage which is too much human interaction, too much pandering to women, they work tedious jobs to support families and they can't focus.

 

yup i've always been invisible to women sadly girls have been ignoring me since high school i feel like im always respectful to women irl and i hold the door open for them. any time ive tried to talk to girls irl they always get bored listening to what i have to say even if its just talking about a new movie or the weather and they pull out there phone and busy themselves so they dont have to listen to me anymore. any other guys here have this problem ? i dont have a job right now and i stopped playing sports because of covid on my team. i got vaccinated and yet girls still wont talk to me.. i feel embaressed admitting i still live at home at 25. how can i fix this problem ?

 

You need a hard mode reboot man. Do it right away.

 

ive never had a girlfriend irl before. yup i can relate to you so i just talk to girls online instead i play lots of games with chat rooms i play among us and hotel hideaway because its easier to hide behind a screen but i cant say i dont have some contact with girls just not irl lol. ive had too much bad luck with catfishing just like you ive also had bad luck with dating sites like tinder and whatsapp. girls can be so manipulative and they think its funny to mess with guys heads

 

Lol. Yep. Invisible to girls, dudes, and basically anyone who doesn't HAVE to talk to me for a reason. But you know? I started NoFap based on principle and to focus on improving ME. I've been learning not to care so much about other people's perceptions of me and just do what I believe is right.