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okay now i got serious problem

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Jakethedog, Dec 24, 2021.

  1. Jakethedog

    Jakethedog Fapstronaut

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    so it's day 9 wothout porn and likee day 5 of nofap. usually i was horny af on day 5 but some weird thing happend throughout this week. i met a girl i really like we talked about lot of stuff and i want relationship to go further. now serious problem, im scared that i won't get hard or be enough for her. i think she's a bit more experienced than i am and im pretty sure if she won't like sex she won't even mention it but i still am worried af and that's the reason i think I'll fail. i seriously lack confodence and become nervous pretty easily, im anxious about lot of stuff. i thought with nofap and no porn my sex drive would increase but it actually decreased. if you have any tips for overcoming sexual stress. and stuff like that im listening and also could some experienced man text me regularly and help me get through woth this stuff. ill be really grateful.❤️❤️❤️
     
  2. Jakethedog

    Jakethedog Fapstronaut

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    i have pied once because i was drunk af and once because i was nervous. it's just little hard to get hard for me somethimes ig but last time i had sex i got hard
     
  3. Jakethedog

    Jakethedog Fapstronaut

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    but last sex was horrible and pretty much every sex I've had was quite bad
     
  4. MeEqualsNF

    MeEqualsNF Fapstronaut

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    You probably don't want to do this, but tell the girl your situation. If she's not understanding and wants to leave you for that, then she's not a right partner for you.
     
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  5. MarioCorrelos

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    Maybe this soon in your NoFap process a girl or a relationship should be the last element to worry about. Yeah, timing sucks in your case, but as @MeEqualsNF just told you, focus on your recovery and if she wants to be part of it, welcome her. If she doesn't... I guess you will both have to accept it's not the best time.
     
    Last edited: Dec 24, 2021
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  6. Jakethedog

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    thanks guys it helped me a lot
     
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