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Does this count as a binge?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by cyclist93, Sep 9, 2015.

  1. cyclist93

    cyclist93 Fapstronaut

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    So I tapped this morning to just sensation for about 10 mins and a few hours ago I watched porn for 3 hours. Does this reset my progress if I stop now?
     
  2. Mr_Annon

    Mr_Annon Fapstronaut

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    Its your choice, 3 hours is very long I watched it for about 3-5m today and didn't class it as a relapse. I would say yes because it's 3 hours but overall it's your choice. I don't see how you could watch it for 3 hours the longest sessions I did in the past was about 30min. haha Anyway I don't want to go back to them days at all.
     
  3. That decision is for you to decide. I wouldn't call it a binge because the term "binge" usually refers to a person repeatedly PMOing multiple times. If you're watching P without MO'ing, or even if you're PM'ing, that's considered edging. Most people consider Edging to be a relapse, as it's as bad for you (if not worse) than edging.

    If it were me, I would count it as a relapse, as the ultimate goal is to stop watching porn. But the decision is ultimately up to you!
     
  4. IGY

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    My question is, why would you watch porn for 3 hours :eek: and not reset?
     
  5. IGY

    IGY Guest

    I don't understand. You think you have to watch it for 15 minutes before you need to reset your counter? Please explain how you can claim to be on day 8? :confused:
     
  6. Mr_Annon

    Mr_Annon Fapstronaut

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    I didn't m so I don't class it as a relapse, I wasn't happy I did that though, it was about 2 minutes then I instantly realised what I was doing and clicked off the horrible pictures. Also that is just my personal preference.
     
  7. Thechosenone

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    I'd say watching any porn is a relapse but I understand that once you become more comfortable being strict on yourself you can reset even when you watch 1 min. But starting off u need the encouragement!
    I'd make another counter for psubs itll help.
     
  8. Mr_Annon

    Mr_Annon Fapstronaut

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    True I was thinking of that and probably will.
     
  9. IGY

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  10. Mr_Annon

    Mr_Annon Fapstronaut

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    Ok good :)
     
  11. SkyDoge

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    I haven't looked at any nudes and have avoided sexy images whenever possible. Not for 5 minutes, nothing. I guess I've been doing it wrong haha.
     
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  12. Pureheart

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    What does it matter if you reset or don´t reset?
    If your reboot has been damaged/delayed resetting or not-resetting won´t change a thing.
    I don´t even count days because it´s not a competition for me.
    Just stop PMO.
    Sometimes I feel like people care more about their nofapstreak than actually curing themselves...
     
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  13. SkyDoge

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    There's no cure for being a human pureheart. The libido isn't something that can just be done away with entirely.

    I keep a counter to remind me of my duty to my wife. And I take great delight in watching it grow bigger than others. :D so regardless of how people use their counters, its a helpful tool for them so why does it matter? Their understanding of their addiction will evolve.
     
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  14. MadHatter

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    I hear you, man. Every time someone asks "does X count as a relapse/reset?" - they damn well know it does, or they wouldn't be asking. Unless it is a wet dream. And in that specific case, who the hell would even ask?

    In a NoFap challenge, you set your own rules. And if you set your rules - live by them and follow them, for crying out loud.
    Relapsing is defined by "going back to past behaviors". If you do so - you have relapsed. End of story.

    Re: counters.
    I was without a counter for a very long time, and reinstated it only recently, when I reached 100 days, in order to inspire myself and others. There are those who don't think it is possible for them to reach a goal. Seeing someone else's counter can sometimes remind you that it is, indeed, achievable.
     
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  15. Pureheart

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    @MadHatter

    the main reason i don´t count is because I want to get rid of PMO behind the scenes. Meaning I don´t want to think about it all day. Stoping PMO is for me important but only a minor goal.
    I don´t want to chain myself as "porn-victim" or whatsoever. Because that would make porn haunt a person all enternity.

    I don´t intend to be a "pmo-survivor", I intend to squash the irritating fly that porn is to me.

    I have to say that in my case my porn "addiction" and history per se is only a very mild one. I am lucky enough to stop young with it (20) and have never had severe problems with it. The reason I am here is not because it is, was detrimental to me or destroyed my life, but instead, because I just thought that it is disgusting and wrong.

    Because of that i don´t count. I will just stop for good and after sometime it will be as if it never happened before. End to the story. no big deal.
     
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  16. MadHatter

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    Gotcha.
    Thankfully, aside from the shame and guilt thing, I never had pornography affect me physically, either.
    I am on board with you not wanting to give pornography the "satisfaction" of permanently associating with it in some form.
     
  17. Ultra Zork

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    I can relate with you actually. I joined this site 10 months after I first fapped but I got addicted quickly so I haven't had any long streaks
     

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