A Guide To Be The Most Consistently Dumb Man Alive

Self compassion, and i guess in this case compassion, goes a long way. It's not like anyone wants to be an addict, not sure if calling yourself a dumbass for it is really helpful or even an accurate understanding of how addictions form and why they stick around. I don't think anyone is really surprised their pmo addiction is causing issues in their life or confused about the issues it's causing, that's kinda why this entire website exists.

 

When post nut clarity hits hard.

Seriously though, many of us have been in your shoes. How long was your streak? I mean, you've already proven to yourself that you're capable of abstaining at least for a while. If you push yourself just slightly harder, you'd be able to make it a little further next time.

 

People usually pmo compulsively because they don't or not enough in there actual life . It's not being a caveman it's called being human..but porn keeps triggering our innate nature ... Compulsively and extensively. It's a cycle hopped on steroids and won't end until you change it .

You are correct about the one thought of a hot girl can completely fuck up your mood . And those thoughts are more likely to be triggered by porn . I never used to have such an addiction to porn . And I didn't have any issue talking to girls . In fact I would be constantly horny because I did talk to girls .
Life as an adult is much more complicated . At the same time it's not but it is . People are much more difficult to communicate . And life gets very confusing it doesn't take a huge stretch to see how people get completely detailed and start developing addictions. For me in this moment in time I'm sitting in a absolutely dead silent apartment in the dark watching TV yesterday was the same and so will tomorrow. There are about 50-100 people living in this building and I'd say at least 60% are doing exactly the same thing fuck all and sitting alone

 

Don't be so hard on yourself. How can you be your biggest fan? What if this is all the set up for a success story in the end?

 

52 days is freaking amazing.
If we could all do 52 days in a row, we could get our PMO addictions down to 7 times a year . . . what an improvement over what active addiction looks like!!


You might be slipping, maybe really bad at times, but you are in recovery none the less, you have just demonstrated self awareness and you have a lot to be proud of.

 

Lmfaoo story of my life. I'm determined to beat this like I beat my meat to debased material.

 

Step 9- Beat yourself, insult yourself, lower your self-respect and self-estem, take things personally

Step 10- Just don't do anything and expect things to get better in a comfortable way