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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by artifact, Nov 24, 2018.

  1. Hi Martial, I have added you to the waiting list.
     
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  2. Happy New Year! I resolve to get back on track and say no to P and M.
     
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  3. Steveal3aneef1

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    packed and ready, I'm focusing on creating good habits. gonna start with my sleep pattern I'm going to sleep at 11:00 pm and try to cut off the digital world 1 hour before I sleep and spent writing my journal, planning next day, and read a book until I fall asleep
     
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  4. marksaysay

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    Just had a moment...

    I'm sitting here with my journal, mapping out my 2022 goals and I started listing accomplishments from 2021. I then realized I couldn't remember how many days I was on. I've stopped counting days because it's simply become a way of life! It just seemed like a few days ago was day 90. I had no clue I was already up to 101 days!!!
     
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  5. Steveal3aneef1

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    just got Huawei fit watch, it's amazing how technology can help us, I know now how good was my sleep, also reminds me to drink water, exercise, meditating, and practice deep breathing, these are is what I believe the definition of self-care
     
  6. daryl_zero

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    Checking in. Reset today.

    I struggled a great deal last year, but I think it was, overall, the most porn-free year of my life since adolescence. I'm going to take what I've learned and keep trying and growing. Good luck to all of you guys in 2022!
     
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  7. Bernard O.

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    Checking in. Hoping to do much better this year.
     
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  8. JJ_Kino

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    Reset today, struggles :(
     
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  9. Happy new year everyone, just back to work after a break where I had no opportunity to mess up my life with PM. Glad to have 11 days behind me already. Here's to 2022 being our best year yet.
     
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  10. Steveal3aneef1

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    today I was struggling with chrome extensions so I can prevent using VPN access on my Google chrome and edge , I almost relapsed because I felt hopeless , every time I get an urge I try to find a loop hole in my security and filtering system, I edged and opened porn but I was sad doing it ,but now I feel great again after succeeding, i won't reset my counter because that will urge me to binge and relapse like crazy
     
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  11. salaciousDone

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    Reset, too much time on my hands during leave and I ended up going down to P rabbit hole. Just looked at P last night then figured if I was going to reset anyway I may as well make it count... so f**king stupid :-(
     
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  12. Steveal3aneef1

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    had a very stressful day and I seriously thought of relapsing , but I Took step back and reminded myself of why I'm doing it.
     
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  13. daryl_zero

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    Reset again.

    Somebody I know died a few days ago. We weren't close, but I saw her all the time for a period of several years. She was (this is going to get vague/confusing for privacy's sake) a big supporter of some of my work, and I know I meant a lot to her. So I was sad, but like I said, we weren't close. Then, this morning, P and M--a bad reset. Afterward, I asked myself what was going on inside me, emotionally, that I was trying to escape from, and I realized I was more upset about her death than I was admitting. I'm going to talk about it with my wife tonight, and hopefully I can get a better handle on my emotions.
     
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  14. Steveal3aneef1

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    for me, I get blue balls when I fantasize or surf some contents, it's extremely painful , I do squats to release some tension down there.
     
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  15. @Martial - You have been added to the member ranking. Welcome back! :cool:
     
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  16. Bernard O.

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    Slipped again yesterday. Checking in
     
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  17. Martial

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    Thanks a lot @artifact , great to be back! Quite a churn of members since I was here last in the summer, I recognise 10 names out of the 20, but I suppose that’s to be expected.
    Looking forward to being part of the group again!
     
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  18. Steveal3aneef1

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    So , I decided to sleep late last night binging on video games , woke with bad mood and hard urges , at that moment I realized I started to slip, and starting my daily morning rituals and daily tasks and thankfully I'm back on track , never sleep late (lesson learned)
     
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