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Do you ever find porn really boring

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Upwards2020, Jan 1, 2022.

  1. Upwards2020

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    Like what's stimulating about watching random people fuck. Sex is only stimulating when your doing the fucking . And of youve watched porn long enough hell even that can be less interesting . I wreckon a lot of people just fap because it's something to do and change the setting.

    Sometimes your horny other times it's all boring , life is boring .

    Theres nothing more boring than watching other people have sex . What straight dude wants to watch a guy with his dick out . And what cuck wants to get off to pixels like an absolute bitch . It was good when you were a teenager and didn't give a shit but once you become an adult it just feels rather pathetic and honestly how long can you keep this up watching the same old shit. I mean people get bored having sex . So how the fuck do you not get bored watching other people . That is essentially what it is . Fuck dat

    I mean a sexless life is boring and porn is boring but even having sex is no big deal . Life is just shit
     
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  2. DeeJ4y

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    I would not say life is just shit but I agree, porn is boring. It will never truly satisfy anyone and that added with the fact that porn causes so many negatives in our lifes is why I do not want to watch porn. If I do want to watch, I will always be disappointed, at my self and the porn I thought would satisfy my urge.
     
  3. skaterdrew

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    I find it boring if I frequently do it. But don't do it for a few weeks or months and then do it, it's not boring. I actually find this like an ecstacy type pleasure and enjoyment.
     
  4. FutureKing

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    If it doesn't involve my particular fetish, I honestly find most porn to be unwatchable for several reasons:

    1. I don't want to see someone else's cock, like ever.
    2. Vanilla sex is kinda boring to me.
    3. I realize that what I am watching isn't an accurate representation of the actual act.

    If it involves my fetish, it's more of a means to an end. I've actually meet the porn stars and the models for TTWD and now that I've hung out enough with them to humanize them and to consider some of them acquaintances and others friends, it seems odd fapping to them tho they would be happy if I did. They all seem remarkably normal. Since the material is made for a limited audiences, and the stars tend to be the ones to throw fetish parties, you are bound to meet them. I've even been asked if I wanted to do a porn scene for free.

    If you want to see REALLY boring, watch a scene actually being recorded.
     
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  5. Yeah even watching models is more boring. Sometimes they are even sleeping, rip you off, not even caring about your desires. It’s a more worse environment then P.
     
  6. Upwards2020

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    I don't know how dudes sit and watch it for hours on end and pay money . It's like paying someone to pretend they don't hate you .
     
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  7. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

    I wish. I still find it rivetting. Well I don't watch it anymore, but you know what I mean.
     
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  8. Same here. I don't have any interest in porn anymore. It's boring, it damages me, and I don't enjoy looking at it. I've seen come claim that porn can be useful for education, but it's not good for that either. For me, it's completely pointless. But the damn urges keep coming back.
     
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  9. FutureKing

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    Porn is useless for education. Sex is nothing like porn, at all. Cocks aren't 8" on the small end. Anal requires a TON of prep that is conveniently done off camera. Most women actually have a gag reflex, you know, for survival. Even the positioning is stupid and non-pleasurable.

    Also many women can only orgasm through cunnilingus.

    Porn is a tool of miseducation of how sex works. It's a comical misrepresentation of sex for the male eye.
     
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  10. They have nothing else to hold on to for relationships. I am a past cam room visited guy and I can tell you allot of them are in their upper 40’s or 50’s. Millionaires who do it out of spite for pleasure because they don’t have anyone else. But some do find relationships and some models can be very respectful. Some times it’s a good thing or bad, depends on the model.
     
  11. ndaty

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    It is boring yes, i agree!
     
  12. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

    I don't get this thread. Why are you guys here?
     
  13. FutureKing

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    I was told that if you couldn't do a 90 day streak you are basically an addict (joke.)
     
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  14. Always Keep Going

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    It's nothing but substance. there are no real people involved, just mechanical motor objects with names. flesh that makes carnal gestures to bring you into a dreamy state. it's all artificial. you feel paralyzed/addicted because fixing your gaze at erotic postures is deeply rooted in the primitive need to procreate and extend your genealogy. its better to focus on other things, at let the mental scars heal by themselves. This year, I'm going to be the best researcher I can with little disruption to my field of study, since I understand how the drug works, I understand that its all about controlling impulse, taking note of how you're feeling along with internal/external cues.
     
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  15. FutureKing

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    My main problem with my particular genre of fetish porn is, like I've said, I've met the big stars and many models. I really don't like fapping to people I know. It actually makes me a bit uncomfortable. I actually stop watching porn completely after a play party for up to a month just because I know the actors/actresses in real life, I know their vanilla personalities, I can DM them right now, and get a reply. I've recieved sage advice from them, and some are my friends. A couple are good mentor territory friends, these I can't really watch at all.
     
  16. Mr doctor

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    Ya sometimes i don't even know
     
  17. King in the making

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    Once you've seen it all, porn just becomes boring and repetitive. Some people go down the cave and start watching sick shit, others (like us) get away from the whole thing.
     

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