The Acceptance of a PMO addicted man

A women would not accept you if you have pmo. You may be able to be in a relationship with a women but having negative addiction and habits will only create separation, anxiety, lies, animosity etc etc. 2 individual living individually without harmony never works. You might find a women who also has negative habits but the relationship will be unhealthy.

 

Porn is detrimental to relationship. People get married with this addiction and it later turns their lives to hell. Having an addiction means that you have underlying problems you wish to escape from, meaning, you are not honest with yourself and just let those problems fester, while hiding them and covering them with porn. Replacing porn with a living woman won't help, you will become addicted to her instead, and s1mps are disgusting to women on instinctual level, which results in drama and broken lives. First you must resolve the issue of 'What am I escaping from?'

Getting rid of porn addiction and it's substitutes, getting your life in order are first. Women are later.

 

Very well put Vince. Many married men are addicted to porn. In my opinion the root cause of addiction is the perceived futility of life. Addiction to PMO, gambling etc is an attempt to escape from this lack of hope!

 

Frankly, Brad real life women can't compete with surgically and digitally enchanced stars. They themselves know this. When they find out their men are fapping to such stimuli they are devastated . They feel inadequate and cheated on.

 

Of course and the more society becomes Hypersexualized the rarer it will become to find a real down to earth women

 

Yep. You are 100% correct. That’s why the divorce rates double when their partner starts watching porn.

https://www.science.org/content/article/divorce-rates-double-when-people-start-watching-porn

https://verilymag.com/.amp/2017/07/causes-of-divorce-effects-of-watching-pornography

Excerpt from second article:”Among the many secrets and tricks for safeguarding your marriage, there is one piece of advice that often falls through the cracks, but interestingly enough, it’s divorce lawyers who are raising the alarm.

There, at the dreaded end, around a table full of grievances and wounds accumulated throughout the years, divorce lawyers have begun to notice a trend: Porn is ruining marriage.

According to Manning’s research, 56 percent of divorce cases involve one party having an obsessive interest in pornographic websites.”

 

I think it's possible, but either she is aware of the suffering that she will endure or she is not. Let's reformulate the question a little:

Given my addiction to PMO, am I someone that is ok to be with?

I don't think so, and don't think that any woman deserves that. I'm talking about my bitter experience, but I guess this applies for every case. A woman deep inside needs a man that makes her feel safe, a strong man. Women look for security in men, even when feminists say otherwise, that's nature. The thing is that an addict man gives a woman insecurities, and for a good reason.

I think that asking ourselves the question in the way you did is possibly wrong. Why? Because if the answer was "yes" (and it's not) it would be ok to be an addict. It's not ok at all.