Does not fapping affect kinks or fetishes?

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  1. Would not fapping for a very long time have an affect on fetishes or kinks? Would it lessen or make them go away over time or does nothing change?
     
  2. jcl1990

    jcl1990 Fapstronaut

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    Nothing wrong with a fetish… just don’t destroy your body by ejaculating too much and don’t destroy your mind by watching too much porn. My opinion - a fetish - as long as you are proud of it - nothing wrong with it. But the rule, be doing it with another person, best case scenario a girl you actually like a lot
     
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  3. Yes. Maybe not completely gone, but they will get weaker and more manageable.
     
  4. WalkingForward

    WalkingForward Fapstronaut

    I don't feel like going into much detail but my fetish has severely damaged my ability to ever be able to have a somewhat normal life. Fetishes can be very destructive.

    Regarding the question, it depends. If the fetishes have been formed by porn usage then I think they can be reduced with NoFap to a significant degree.

    I had my fetish years before I even started fapping, and it seems that NoFap alone can't make it go away. What NoFap does for me however is make me more flexible in my sexual taste and more open to other sexual stimuli. Less restricted.
     
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  5. VinceLaCroix

    VinceLaCroix Fapstronaut

    Yes. But be wary - if you return to porn, they'll be back in no time. But if you stay away you should be alright. I have a fetish since childhood and yet it almost gone, if I don't search for it actively, it does not resurface. And I say good riddance, it was a plague on my life.
     
  6. GodWithin

    GodWithin Fapstronaut

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    The more you watch porn the more addicted you become.
    The less you watch porn the less addicted you become.
    Makes sense I guess.
     
  7. ImFuture

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    My fetish is gone without porn.
     
  8. I certainly fucking hope mine does. I hope like if I'm exposed to it somehow non porn wise it does just hit me and make me stupid.
     
  9. jcl1990

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    Well, as long as there is mutual consent. And I don’t think harming an animal would ever be good or right. And I don’t mean doing anything that severely damages either your own or another persons body. I just meant “normal” fetishes, like little things that some people might think are strange but overall are not that big of a deal. And I don’t think eating shit would be healthy lol, and raping children of course not
     
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  10. Coolbreeze

    Coolbreeze Fapstronaut

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    These are rather extreme examples to be fair. Fapping in moderation is totally fine but in extremes it can obviously cause problems. Same goes for NEVER fapping, this is probably not healthy either, balance in everything my friend.
     
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  11. WalkingForward

    WalkingForward Fapstronaut

    It's perfectly fine to never fap. The Dalai Lama is 86 years old and he seems to be doing fine.
     

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