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Fourteen Steps Challenge

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by The Great Safecracker, Dec 15, 2019.

  1. Semtex

    Semtex Fapstronaut

    0/2

    Don't want to start over.
     
  2. Beasthunter1998

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    relapse to Psubs and then leads me back to PMO, I must do better in terms of fighting the urges.
     
  3. Semtex

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    Day 2/3: check
    Day 3/3 yesterday: check!
    Day 1/4 today
    Why: It doesn't suit my personality...
     
  5. Semtex

    Semtex Fapstronaut

    0/3 (reset after finishing step 2 unfortunately)

    Why: to unlock the layers of reality that are hidden to me currently.
     
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  6. healmyself321

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    Step 4 day 1 completed, its so frustrating to live like this man, just constant inner pain, been good with girls my whole life and I cant really do much with them rn..always covering up for not doing it or for not doing it right and I just had enough of this sh*t. Im fighting my hardest this year to change my life and Im ready to do anything to get there. Im gonna be at least partly healed by this summer I can promise you that. God bless yall, just keep going.
     
  7. Lolodb12

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    Day 2/4: check!
    I can already sense that tomorrow will be my toughest day.... I am free all day and home alone then.... Very anxious that it won't work out tomorrow... Any tips?
     
  8. Beasthunter1998

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    Enough is enough, I must make it for tomorrow.
     
  9. Lolodb12

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    0/4: fail
    As predicted... Not enough planning in advance today...
    Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day!
     
  10. Beasthunter1998

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    Survive one day without even a little peek, must keep up the good work.
     
  11. Semtex

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    A heavy relapse yesterday. The silver lining is the numbness I feel at the moment. No desire to act out at all.

    1/3
     
  12. healmyself321

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    Step 4 completed, 10 days in a row without peeking or anything really, it was a long time ago I actually did it properly like this, just gonna keep going day by day. Having a girlfriend or something like that helps a lot since you wanna get healthy as soon as possible and you dont wanna feel that shame of being incapable, feels much stranger and harder to pmo too. We need to get it together, we are literally fighting for our lives here lmao.
     
  13. healmyself321

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    If you know in advance you are gonna have a tough day, you could make a plan you are gonna follow strictly, with as much human interactions as you can (friends, girls,whatever) and just go the fak away from home, ask someone to sleep over or sh*t just dont relay on your self sitting alone and trying to resist because it probably wont work, good luck.
     
  14. Good luck for all the new, old, and new old.

    Nothing positive to report from my absence. I've still been failing the step eight.
     
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  15. Force Majeure

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    I am ready to take this challenge again now. This really is it. No matter how many times before I've said that, it doesn't matter. What matters is where I am now and my way forward. During the last year, I've had a hard time to motivate myself staying on track. At last I have reached the step where I clearly see all the bad things porn brings: Lost time, lost sleep, lost relationships, brain fog, eyestrain.

    0/1.
     
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  16. Semtex

    Semtex Fapstronaut

    3/3

    Want to move forward
     
  17. Beasthunter1998

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  18. Semtex

    Semtex Fapstronaut

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    I wonder, are there any graduates? Did anyone make it through step 14?
     
  19. healmyself321

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    step 5 day 2
    Altho dont let this challenge makes you feel like its okay to relapse and than you are just back at your checkpoint, thats not how it actually works, mistakes will always be there but every day is important. Like do you really wanna waste more of your life being addicted and foolish? If you need to stop using your phone to recover just do it, dont be a pu**y, whatever it is just fking do it, we all have to step this sh*t up if we wanna be truly free again. God bless.
     
  20. Semtex

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    2/4

    Keep hope alive
     

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