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Some questions on how to quit, porn benefits etc.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Dan Sanders, Jan 24, 2022.

  1. Dan Sanders

    Dan Sanders Fapstronaut

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    Hey, guys. Some time ago my K9 broke and I decided that it's better to train my power of will etc. But then, I just returned to the same pathways. But I contemplated and wrote done some questions for those who had more luck with this. Here they are:
    1. I heard that it's bad not to cum when you are already watching porn, because just watching without a sexual release is worse than to finally cum. My question is:
    - Is it good to try to stop on stage A, when I am looking for porn and have seen several previews / screenshots?
    - Is it good to try to stop on stage B, when I am watching porn, and started jerking off, but still has not cum?
    - Is it good only not to start looking in the first place and if you seen some porn, it's recommended to finish?
    Because I feel some shame and think that if I already started looking, I must go to the end.
    What to do about this wicked thought?
    2. About possible porn benefits
    Why quit? I know for me it caused lots and lots of trouble for many years.
    But thinking about all the women in porn.
    In life you won't have much of them.
    And porn gives you at least some fantasy.
    Also in porn you get all the possible genres, situations, and really beautiful women, that are ready to do everything (sex-wise) for you. In life you will only get 0.001% of this.
    3. How do you, rebooters and those who quit live without jerking off, porn and women?
    So, if you do not have a regular partner. And you do not pick up girls often. What do you do?
    How is it even possible to keep from these releases of tension when you really-really want it so bad?
    I heard here on forum that it's really hard and life for some men becomes really hard and painful? Isn't there some more enjoyable path to live your life?
    4. Also I noticed, that often the only thing, I mean, the two things in me want this - the brain and the prostate. And when I start watching all these dull videos, trying to find something interesting, beautiful girls and long shots, I masturbate and it's really painful, I become so-so nervous, everything irritates me. And the one thing that I want at that moment is to finish, to have that release and that unobtainable satisfaction (the satisfaction you can only have with a real woman, as far as I can understand) and to throw it far away. But then, the next day or in one-two it all repeats once again. Do you have these moments? How do you cope with this?
    5. It's 2022. What are the current trends / news in rebooting now?
    May be some effective approaches, great scientific things to do to to become free.
     
  2. Abel100%

    Abel100% Fapstronaut

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    la adicción de P no trae beneficios y más si uno es adicto...
     
  3. specofconsciousness

    specofconsciousness Fapstronaut

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    Most lf these are questions you'll have to answer yourself. Personally, stopping as soon as possible as i have started looking up sensitive stuff is necessary. Going through with it is an excuse to keep relapsing. Every time you have the urges, you're gonna give in. You have to resist. You have to watch the urges from above.
    Why stop watching porn? Well ask yourself how you feel when consuming porn and how you feel if you have been clean for a while (obivously there are bad days). How does porn affect your mental health? Motivation? Self-value? How does it change how you view women? How does it affect your sex life and sexual health? Does it fog up your mind with disgusting fantasies and make you objectify women?
    For me, even clearer skin and mind is enough to crack down on this addiction. I see all the time how my porn addiction translates into other aspects of life. How i cannot resist something, how my motivation and discipline crumble to pieces every time. If you want a better and happier self you'll have to commit. If you don't now, you will start feeling the side effets soon and then it's going to be much harder to turn your manipulated brain around. Porn exhausts your brain and demolishes it. Stand strong and you will be a happier, more organised, clear-minded person. And a healthy one. Good luck man.
     
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