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Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Warrior_007, Feb 15, 2022.

  1. Warrior_007

    Warrior_007 Fapstronaut

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    I am very close to day 30
    Urges are coming but i am focused but sometimes i feel like i need someone to motivate me and give me some tips.
    Because this is the only platform where i am sharing about this. I have not talked about this with anyone else sometimes i feel like i am alone
    I request you everyone please give some good thoughts to me.
     
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  2. Coub

    Coub Fapstronaut

    Proper mindset is a key... try not to treat it as a challenge or you will never separate that from your life. Just accept the fact that this is no longer a thing in your life. And I say it as a person who've been doing it for hell lot of years(15?). Try to think about it as least as possible: why bother about things that are already a past?
    I know that ghosts of past will come from time to time. But then I remind myself why I decided to do that, to forfeit those ghosts. It's subjective part. For me it's a choice between life and no life. Between going forward or staying in place. Nothing in my life is going to change unless I'll forfeit that part of my life.
     
  3. Warrior_007

    Warrior_007 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much brother.
    Feels like someone from family is motivating myself to do better and i am not alone many peoples like you are with me !!!
     
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  4. Magnus Spellburn

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    Don't relapse, it's not worth it. Look at that ugly 0 days badge below me, you don't want to be like that right?

    *The story is quite complicated, in a nutshell I'm ejaculate when workout. Not by looking at porn. But, don't relapse at all cost!

    Keep the spirit up!
     
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  5. The promised neverland

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    30 days is extraordinarily long well done man!! My longest ever score is 31 days so beat my score and not your meat :D haha

    If you are really feeling down and want some motivation I would advise you to buy a book, it is extremely short but man it will give you so much to think about. This book is about pure philosophy, survival and to choose your own attitude whatever you are facing in your life.

    It is called Men's search for meaning, and here check out some of the top quotes from the book in case to see if you think it could help you to get through this nightmare period.

    https://www.goodreads.com/work/quot...n-ein-psychologe-erlebt-das-konzentrationslag

    Also just wanna add an extra quote that is referenced in the book, but it is from Nieche actually. "Those who have a 'why' to live, can bear with almost any 'how'." You know why you are doing this so focus on your goals and if you stay conscious of it you are going to be able to bear any horniness.

    Stay strong warrior
     
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  6. Negan©

    Negan© Fapstronaut

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    Well done brother..impressive streak ..im just around the corner at day 40 or something..i dont keep track of exact number of dates as this is not something which is gonna end , this is me saying fukk off to porn and masturbation , believe me theyve taken so so much from me..
    So i have a mantra with the use of which i was able to quit nofap and recently smoking..that mantra works something like this , whenever i have urges to fao or smoke i telll myself ," you made a conscious decision to do that stuff and it was the same you who made the conscious decision of leaving it , youre either completely in or youre completely out , you take that decision consciously , no post nut or post smoke guilt involved , one relapse and then youre a person who breaks the promises he makes to himself , isnt true to himself , such a person can never remain true to anybody "..
    And thats what works for me man..i hope this mantra helps you too..
     
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  7. Warrior_007

    Warrior_007 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you brother.
     
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  8. GP93

    GP93 Fapstronaut

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    You are on a good and positive road my friend! It will get better and better.
    Stay strong and positive :)
     
    Last edited: Feb 23, 2022
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  9. jcl1990

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    Keep going! Keep coming onto this forum and reading success stories. Also, read some of the relapse stories as well so you can stay aware of the possibility of your thoughts leading you into PMo
     
  10. AlexFightsAlex

    AlexFightsAlex Fapstronaut

    I'm in a very similar streak too. You can find helpful stuff in my journal regarding tips. Also I've written about this in other comments. Keep going my friend
     

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