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Try Sex in flatline?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by resilient bastard, Feb 8, 2022.

  1. resilient bastard

    resilient bastard Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys,

    i am in day 36 PMO. I am actually in a huge flatline with anxiety and sadness. My dick feel like numb. No morning wood, no spontanous erection and no erection through my mind.
    I recently dated a girl 3 times and we ended kissing and cuddling and i left her appartement without sex. The kissing was great but i felt due to flatline i wasnt ready to have sex with her. My mind was not connected to my dick, i was not aroused 100%. Also i dont feel a real connection to this girl, but maybe i feel wrong about that, maybe it is my anxiety and i just want to flee from this situation.

    So my gut tell me, that i should engage with dating further when i am healed. So i will stay with PMO the next 2 month and wait until my morning wood and spontanous erection returns.

    But my head tells me i should carry on meeting this girl maybe with blue pills to have a small chance of accelerate the healing. But my gut tells me again and again don't do it, you are not ready and you will fail. On the other hand sometimes in life you have to risk something to get a step forward. I am unsure and need your advice.
     
    Last edited: Feb 8, 2022
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  2. Oliver Gunter

    Oliver Gunter Fapstronaut

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    I recently had a similar situation. I had a date, we were kissing, but I didn't get a boner and couldn't take it further therefore.
    For the next date I raised my testosterone by doing muscle training and taking supplements (zinc, vitamin d3, magnesium) and establishing a good mindset. It worked for me after only 4 days or so.
     
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  3. Jay.Rhone34

    Jay.Rhone34 Fapstronaut

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    I’m having the same trouble now , good luck man . Communication is key however , I opened up about my problems with Nofap and It helped a little
     
  4. Zaping18

    Zaping18 New Fapstronaut

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    just created an account after reading endless nofap information and comments from people's, I figured I need to make an account and tell people my experience with reboot.
    I have been doing no nofap for 80 days.
    I was married and used to have sex everyday and also i used to watch porn right before sex everyday, I never had a problem with it not working that was a 14 year marriage.
    Then after divorce everything went down hill, I had sex with 6 different girls in a year and it stopped working half way with all of them.
    I got into depression because I couldn't understand why this was happening.
    Then I read about nofap and I stopped watching porn for 80 days my flatlines are horrible.
    I'm seeing a girl right now and if I go about 7 days without sex then when I see her I have a good sex but right after I cum I lose all my libido I feel like my dick is dead, next day this girl comes for more sex and I can't get it up, it takes me 1 to 2 weeks to have my libido back, everytime I cum while having sex this happens. It's been happening for a while.
    I was not like this when I was married I used to have sex twice a day and my dick was always ready for more sex, now I feel like I don't like sex anymore its scary.
    I think it's due o separation and porn issues, I'm gonna continue with nofap but I'm also gonna continue having sex with this girl.
    She thinks I can't keep up with her because I can't have another sex for days after I cum, little does she knows that I used to have sex everyday twice a day, I want to go back to normal this has been so hard on me
     
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  5. Fatsodubmo

    Fatsodubmo Fapstronaut

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    I'm on day 67. Had sex on day 25 and it was amazing, I thought my pied was cured. Nope. The next two times I tried, old limp dick was back. Fucked with my head big time. I didn't expect to go right back into a major flatline right after successful sex! Then, on day 64, boom, had great sex again. Waiting for my next time, maybe tonight to see of I repeat the post sex flatline. The last flatline was accompanied with severe withdrawal symptoms like anxiety, depression etc.. this time I am not experiencing those mental symptoms, and I'm still getting morning wood and sometimes wood in the middle of the day. We will see, we're all different, and this is a long journey. Great luck buddy!
     

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