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Lent 2022 Challenge

For Fapstronauts who are disciples of Christ

  1. Marcus Aurelius

    Marcus Aurelius Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone,

    I decided today that I want to give up porn for Lent (and hopefully beyond that). Anyone want to join me?

    The rules for this challenge are simple:
    • Stay Porn free for 40 days (From Ash Wednesday to Easter Sunday)
    • Post every day (or as often as you are able)
    Optional (but recommended rules):
    • Daily prayer
    • Daily scripture reading
    Feel free to use this thread for discussion as well during the Easter season.
     
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  2. I applaud this challenge and am cheering you on! Keep checking in, and I will, too!
     
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  3. Marcus Aurelius

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    Day 0: I'm feeling temptation right off the bat. Luckily, I have a midterm today and I have work tonight, so hopefully that will keep me too busy to look at porn.
     
  4. Sean Edie

    Sean Edie Fapstronaut

    I'm doing a similar thing. I'll try to post here too
     
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  5. Sean Edie

    Sean Edie Fapstronaut

    I was reading the Bible this morning and this caught my eye "After the Lord your God has driven them out before you, do not say to yourself, ‘The Lord has brought me here to take possession of this land because of my righteousness.’ No, it is on account of the wickedness of these nations that the Lord is going to drive them out before you."
    Deuteronomy 9:4
    I need to remember that if I'm ever going to stop this, it won't be me that does it and it it won't be because I'm such a good person but it will be through God and because of His glory that I'll stop
     
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  6. Sean Edie

    Sean Edie Fapstronaut

    God is so forgiving. I'm reading through the old testament at the moment and the rebellion of the Israelites keeps coming up but when we read it, we must realise that we are no better than them. God is still the same graceful God though
     
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  7. CPilot

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    I agree with you. How incredibly merciful is God! Based on my miserly human capacity for forgiveness, I would not have stood by patiently while a sinner rebuked me daily for so many years, as I did to God. Why God withstood my sinfulness and waited patiently for me can only be explained by recognizing the unconditional love He has for each of us. A perfect love from a perfect Father; kind, wise, understanding and undiminished by our foolishness. Oh Precious Lord, thank you for choosing all of us visiting this site as a people to be saved and gifted with eternal, joyful, selfless, life.
     
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  8. Marcus Aurelius

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    I failed on Ash Wednesday, but things have been going well today.
     
  9. CPilot

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    What strategies will you enact to fight temptation?
     
  10. Sean Edie

    Sean Edie Fapstronaut

    I'm reading a book on sexual detox by Tim Challies and each chapter ends with questions and one question got me thinking
    "Do you believe that Christ is willing to forgive you for this sin and that through His Holy Spirit He is both willing and able to free you from it?"
    The answer must be yes and I need to remind myself of this over and over
     
  11. CPilot

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    After finding freedom from 50 years of PMO, I can testify that God is indeed willing and able to free each of us. However, I am convinced our efforts must be a partnership with the Holy Trinity. The Holy Spirit will provide the essential grace to inspire us but we must be willing to take tangible actions to prepare for the fight against temptation when it comes. God does not promise to remove all temptation; even Christ Jesus was tempted but of course He was prepared to fight it. This is the nature of my question, what strategies and tactics are you preparing for the fight?
     
  12. Sean Edie

    Sean Edie Fapstronaut

    https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/god-works-through-good-resolves
    Seeking the power of God to fulfill our good resolves does not mean that we don’t really resolve, or that we don’t really use willpower.

    The engagement of God’s power never takes the place of the engagement of our will! The power of God in sanctification never makes us passive! The power of God engages itself beneath or behind and within our will, not in place of our will.

    The evidence of God’s power in our lives is not the absence of our willing, but the strength of our willing, the joy of our willing.

    Anyone who says, “Well, I believe in the sovereignty of God and so I will just sit back and do nothing” does not really believe in the sovereignty of God. For why would someone who believes in God’s sovereignty so blatantly disobey him?

    When you sit back to do nothing, you are not doing nothing. You are actively engaging your will in a decision to sit back. And if that is the way you handle sin or temptation in your life, it is blatant disobedience, because we are commanded to wage a good warfare (1 Timothy 1:18) and resist the devil (James 4:7) and strive for holiness (Hebrews 12:14) and put to death the sinful acts of the body (Romans 8:13).

    Second Thessalonians 1:11 says that it is by the power of God that we will fulfill our good resolves and our works of faith. But this does not nullify the meaning of the word “resolve” and the word “work.” Part of the whole process of walking worthy of God’s call is the active engagement of our will in resolving to do righteousness.

    If you have lingering sin in your life, or if you keep neglecting some good deed just because you have been waiting around to be saved without a fight, you are compounding your disobedience. God will never appear with power in your will in any other way than through your exercise of that will; that is, through your good resolves — your good intentions and plans and purposes.

    So, people who believe in the sovereignty of God must not fear to engage their wills in the struggle for holiness. “Strive to enter through the narrow door. For many, I tell you, will seek to enter and will not be able” (Luke 13:24). Only strive in the faith that in and through your striving God is at work to will and to do his good pleasure (Philippians 2:13).
     
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  13. Sean Edie

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    I've been thinking about sovereignty and how much is us to how much is God. Believing that God is sovereign doesn't mean we just sit back and do nothing but if we try to do it in our own strength, we will fail so I started to think about Romans 8:28 "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose."
    If we truly believe this then even when we are tempted, we can be sure it is for our good and since 1 Corinthians 10:13 says "No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it" we can be sure God has given us the way out and this is through His sovereignty. If we cling to the fact that God is in control and this temptation is for our good then the good that can come from this is that we can actively think on the power of God and how He is the one doing the fighting even through our fighting and so we grow in faith and knowledge of Him. The last passage that I'll put here is Philippians 2:13-14 "Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed – not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence – continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfil his good purpose."
    We fight because it is God who works in us and sitting back doing nothing is unfaithful because we can't think that it is God working
     
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  14. Marcus Aurelius

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    I had a streak of 90 days right before COVID hit, so I'm trying to rediscover the strategies that used to work for me. The most important thing for me is to not run from discomfort since I believe that is what is at the root of my porn addiction. Right now that means doing things that I've been putting off and engaging in (often painful) self-reflection. I'm also re-adding structure and replacement behaviours to my life. I'm exercising, praying, reading the Bible, and doing things I'm passionate about every day. I'm making sure to take breaks from work and school when I need them to keep the stress down. The breaks, which usually involve reading or TV, gives me something to look forward to during the less exciting parts of the day that isn't porn.
    This is something I've struggled with for most of my life. I sometimes find it frustrating when someone says to "leave it to God" rather than your own efforts because the practical part of me always wants to respond, "Yes, but how do I do that?"

    All I can say is that I think effort on our part and trust in God must work together. The image of a pair of scissors has been somewhat helpful to me, with faith and good works being represented by each of the scissor blades.
     
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  15. Sean Edie

    Sean Edie Fapstronaut

    My devotional was quite good this morning
    Trials and Temptations as Preparation
    The 40 days of Lent are designed to mirror Jesus’ 40 days of temptation in the wilderness. Following after Jesus, we too must confront temptations and trials that may derail our commitment to God.

    From an Africa Study Bible application note:
    Christians are real people living real lives in a real world and often suffer loss, pain, or failure like everyone else. It could be a time of physical loss or season of spiritual dryness. How do we respond to trials and temptations? What is God doing when He allows us to suffer?

    Jesus also went through trials and temptations. All three of Satan’s temptations were to get Jesus to use His divine powers for selfish purposes (Luke 4:3). Jesus was tempted to use His power in a self-centred manner for physical gratification (1 John 2:16), to acquire material wealth and power (Luke 4:6-7), and third, and probably more common to people in public leadership, He was tempted to perform a dazzling feat to attract crowds of amazed and attentive onlookers (Luke 4:9-11). This is pride (1 John 2:15). Satan behaved as if everyone has a price. His temptations implied that this world is what matters most. Are these not the very temptations we face as Christians?

    In Romans 5:3-5, Paul wrote, “We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation.” All of us will face times in the wilderness of temptation, but Jesus showed us we can overcome.

    Today:
    In these first few days of Lent, what inner desires or external pressures have you noticed distracting you? Using a concordance or index or online tools, look up the words “temptation”, “trial”, or “test” and you will learn how people in the Bible withstood different trials and temptations.
     
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  16. Marcus Aurelius

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    Day 3: I'm feeling tempted today. I have some studying to do today and I'm going to get through it as quickly as I can, taking breaks if needed, so I can relax for the rest of the night. Stress or tiredness and sexual temptation don't go well together. :(
     
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  17. segaclt

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    day 4 completed, did my bible study and meditation
     
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  18. Sean Edie

    Sean Edie Fapstronaut

    I gave in to m last night. The fantasies were just too much but it's the first time in a while I've reached the two week mark
     
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  19. Marcus Aurelius

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    Day 4: Mornings are brutal. I get bombarded with temptation almost every time I wake up. I find it helpful to remember that those temptations will go away once I get up and get on with my morning routine.

    Don't be too hard on yourself, brother. Two weeks is an accomplishment. Hopefully next streak, you'll go even farther. :)
     
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  20. Marcus Aurelius

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    I looked at something I shouldn't have (a p-sub), but I didn't M or O... and so far it hasn't led me to P, so I won't count it as a relapse. I'm going to the movies tonight, so hopefully that will get my mind off of it.
     
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