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Anyone have zero sex drive?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Daggertail19, Mar 28, 2022.

  1. Daggertail19

    Daggertail19 Fapstronaut

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    The title says it. I am a 24 year old male, I go to the gym everyday, eat healthy, have a good job, but I have little to no sex drive.

    I thought it was because of the PMO, but now I barely watch it, and the M has decreased drastically.

    My PMO use over the years has been a bit excessive, so I know that might have something to do with it. But I will see some beautiful women at the gym or out and my guy downstairs does not want to react even though my mind does. Does that make sense? I hope someone can relate.

    Thanks for reading and please post if you can relate or have something to say.
     
  2. Wally542

    Wally542 Fapstronaut

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    Even though your M has decreased drastically this still isn't enough. The M needs to be out completely and the P aswell ofcourse.

    Try to get a 90+ day streak and see what you feel like then :D
     
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  3. Daggertail19

    Daggertail19 Fapstronaut

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    That's the goal. I literally have no access to P since all my devices have filters on them to block P. The M is a tough one though, as you probably know.

    Thanks for the input.
     
  4. BootstrapBill

    BootstrapBill Fapstronaut

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    NoFap = pmo not just porn not just masterbation not just orgasm PMO
     
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  5. eagle rising

    eagle rising Fapstronaut

    I have little to no sex drive, but I'm not scared or worried about it. It just is. I would urge you not to worry about it. Sure, you might want a family and whatnot but you won't be able to tend to that family if you are trying to get moved by a "beautiful woman at the gym". A lower sex drive might be a lot more common were it not for the change to focusing on how a woman looks through societal pressures. Along this vein I would also urge you not to worry about how a woman looks. That is just one dimension of a woman, just one. There are countless more.
     
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  6. BootstrapBill

    BootstrapBill Fapstronaut

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    Sex drive can fluctuate which is normal and many things can effect it . I have a fairly high testosterone level last time I checked and I can still have an absolutely tanked sex drive . From many number of reasons all and all clean healthy lifestyle quality sleep and diet abstaining from frequent alcohol and drugs and keeping on top of my cardiovascular and bodyfat levels aswell as doing NoFap and theoretically you are in the best position you could be . Also a good healthy fats intake . All make a difference I noticed I had a fairly high sex drive but when I started smoking weed everyday drinking maybe 3 days a week and holding about 30 lbs extra body fat as well as a high carb diet . I noticed s decline in libido . Which is probably a normal response as these effect a great number of healthy bodily processes so there is definitely a few things you can do to improve upon a healthy sex drive .
     
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  7. depeche69

    depeche69 Fapstronaut

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    I am asking myself if low sex drive is the better life.
    No desires which has to be fulfilled. You can enjoy the other things of the life.
    You are not a slave of your desires. You are really free.
     
  8. BootstrapBill

    BootstrapBill Fapstronaut

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    I took an SSRI some years ago for a matter of weeks before changing my mind basically this is what ssri do . You literally have zero sex drive life is completely different I had long lasting negative effects from ssri it's strange feeling because everything is so intertwined with sex . Well take that away when you take an SSRI because you are potentially sexually impotent. It's not as freeing as you would think it's just vacant your mind doesn't fill that because of an ssri you've just switched something off. But I hear ya when your minds not think about anything sexual or intimate you can enjoy other areas of life more you definitely can the only thing stopping you from that is people who are still sexual because everything is still intertwined in sex but you don't give a fuck it's a bit of a weird scenario
     

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