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Any Success Stories From India ??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by madara0303, Sep 20, 2015.

  1. madara0303

    madara0303 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone

    I am looking anyone who his willing to share his success story specifically from India. My reason for asking this is that majority of people on this website are from West. The culture and situations in the east and specially in India are very different.
    I just think i will be able to correlate and learn better from success story of a fellow Indian.
    All the help is appreciated.
     
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  2. numpty

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    Lol really?

    The "culture and situations" of fapping are the same whether you are in America or Australia...
     
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  3. sirfapstinence

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    I think what he means is that the benefits or 'superpowers' that are associated with a reboot are not relatable because there are several alleged benefits closely linked to social and cultural contexts.

    @madara0303 Having said that, those benefits or 'superpowers' are superficial. What you need to aim for is benefits from within. A better outlook towards life. Channeling all the free time you get from giving up PMO into productive things - working out, reading, improving parts of yourself that you feel need improvement. Most importantly, not ending up with a porn induced sexual dysfunction (if you don't already suffer from one). This to me is what nofap is really about and most importantly this makes it universal.

    You're more likely to succeed if your goal is to be better than who you were yesterday not whether or not women start noticing you more or whether you're suddenly super charismatic with women.

    All the best.
     
    Last edited: Sep 20, 2015
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  4. idlisambar

    idlisambar New Fapstronaut

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    Yeah i am one of the success stories... I am from south india...rebooting for the last 2.5 years...to just give you an idea from where i started my erections gradually started reducing during my porn sessions and until one day it went complete limp.....thats when i started my reboot... i would even cumm completely flaccid...I was a zero back then... thought i have become impotent...that was 2.5 years ago...now the situation is completely different...i get erections like STEEL at night...even the slightest sexual thoughts get me erect in no time with no manual stimulation....get random erection even when travelling by bus....do i consider myself a success story...hell yeah... but i am facing unique problems in my reboot as i am from india due to the culture and stuff....and it has been one of the toughest things i done in my life...even attempted suicide at one point as i thought my dick would never work...long story.
     
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  5. madara0303

    madara0303 Fapstronaut

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    I complete agree with you brother. The problem of fapping is same everywhere. BUT the steps leading to it might me a little different.
    I am 12 days without PMO right now and as an adult male i have some physical needs. In india society is a little conservative as compared to west. Dating is still not a usual norm. I just need someone with same experience as mine .
     
  6. madara0303

    madara0303 Fapstronaut

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    Your point is very valid sir. I am in a work from home job, all of my housemates work for a different firm. most of my days used to go waste in PMO only. I was not able to work and used to procrastinate a lot. 12 days into PMO. things have only been a little better for me. My thoughts are still clouded by lethargy all the times. Still I am happy that I am atleast not masturbating. But urges are there, i often hear stories abt my friends scoring with a girl. But it is not that common. Since mastrubation is the only way to release sexual energy for many like me in india. I wanted a opinion of someone similar on this one.
     
  7. madara0303

    madara0303 Fapstronaut

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    HI brother. my story is a little different to be honest.
    I am in a work from home job, all of my housemates work for a different firm. most of my days used to go waste in PMO only. I was not able to work and used to procrastinate a lot. 12 days into PMO. things have only been a little better for me. My thoughts are still clouded by lethargy all the times.
    I haven't experienced ED as such. moreover, I am addicted to masturbation and not porn. My question is in india you can date and expect to get laid everyonce in a while. Hell, majority of our population is virgin till their marriages.
    In situations like this what should we do?
     
  8. Masquerade

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    This Question has got its relevance. I am from south India and i truly understand what you are asking about. Its obvious that our culture is different from the West and i also think that People from West wont be able to understand much about our trouble( except fapping and P. Everyone do the same everywhere :p ).
    It is true that every human being will get aroused.Its a natural thing. In west sides people can get laid even before marriage and thats quiet common. But in a society like ours we gotta take some extra precautions. We should never satisfy our urges in P or M.We are doing so because we think its only possible to control that through sex.
    By the way, you must enjoy having the hard on erections on these days. When you start enjoying it and believing that your body is perfectly doing a natural thing you dont need to try to control it forcefully.
    I am 19 and it would take years to have sex with a girl in our society. So what i do is diverting my energy to other things. Work everyday until you get exhausted so that sexual urges come only limited number of times. Even if you are having urges the frequency would be less and you will enjoy it.

    What i meant is spent energy to use ur body. Working infront of computer or watching tv wont work like that. You must GET EXHAUSTED PHYSICALLY.
    If you need to know anything more.Just PM me :)
     
  9. Hello even I'm from India. Please search NoFap Dude on YouTube and connect with me. See you there.
     
  10. thespirit3780

    thespirit3780 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, I am also from india. I understand that, I even thought to be a ccompletely nofap celebrate.
    We must transform our sexual energy in being successful.
    We must also work hard to get out of this country because this is the only thing in which indian society is not open for.
    However, in future, that will be possible.
    Please make it possible for your children, atleast.
    Allow them to have sex, whether boy or girl.

    Accept the fact that this is 'INDIA'.
    I think we should collectively bring this revolution.

    PS
    Accept truth.
    Life is eternal, maybe you will enjoy sex in next lifetime, have faith.Focus on something else, meditate.
     
  11. Abzu

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    You call such thing a revolution? I strongly disagree and condemn your statement. Sex is powerful and it is called sacred energy exchange for a reason, it was meant to be a special thing b/w a husband and wife. Most relationships fail, that's why god created marriage and our Indian culture is right about having these things private because such is the nature of this topic so people are not comfortable discussing it
     
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  12. Qtir_nvr_wins

    Qtir_nvr_wins Fapstronaut

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    Yes bro Iam an Indian
    You can refer "Top tips to quite porn " for my story
    God bless you
     
  13. 28yrsold

    28yrsold Fapstronaut

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    Oh boy, getting erection in the bus.
    It's nothing less than a curse in our country.
    With all this #metoo movement and stuff it can be bit scary.
     
  14. 28yrsold

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    Yeah the fapping issue is same everywhere but in India dating culture is not as big as in West.
    Even if you get a girlfriend, most of the times they just limit it to hugging and kissing.
    The sexual frustration that builds in a person during nofap journey doesn't have a way to get out.
     
  15. HegHeu

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    I am from India and kinda had success for 64 days then I relapsed. The superpowers were more energy to focus and do what I wanted to without procrastinating. And the music seemed chill again could get deep and even movies and videos I enjoyed more.
     
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  16. 28yrsold

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    Definitely. Our senses get better and we make best use of them.
     

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