PIED permanent?

Have you been to a doctor? If everything seems normal then…. Have you stopped masturbating and fantasy? Because these will have the same effect, just not as strong. It took 4-6 months for my husband pied to start to go away. If he relapsed with porn or just masturbating it comes back. At 3 years recovery he is the hardest he’s ever been during sex, it’s really nice. If he masturbates it immediately affects his Erection’s during sex. He cannot masturbate or look/think about anything sexually suggestive or it affects him.

 

One of the things we did when his progress seemed slow ( and he was struggling not to pmo) was we stopped sex altogether. Everything. I didn’t even dress/undress in front of him. 52 days. Had sex once then another 50 days. This helped immensely! He had pied for 5 solid freaking years! He was 45-50. Maybe do a 90 hardmode then see where you are at.

 

In the beginning, the first year, yes. Now, no, but masturbating will.

 

I hope this isn’t inappropriate, but this actually sounds kinda hot. Especially if you enforced the schedule.

that sex must’ve been awesome. And you must be a wonderful wife to be so patient and engaging with this.

 

Lol…. Hence the reason we only made it 52 days rather than the full 90 days which is what’s recommended. Still it helped

 

Yes

 

Possibly. There can be other psychological factors besides super-stimulus screwing up your brain's arousal triggers. How do you feel before sex? During foreplay? During sex? What is your emotional state? Are you anxious? Do you have performance anxiety?

 

How many days before your libido comes back after you ejaculate? How often do you have sex? Are you losing sensitivity?