Lacking a Friend Group

It's good that you're looking at the deeper level things, though on the other hand nobody seems to have an easy solution. Even when people meet in person a lot of it suffers from what you're describing. That doesn't mean it's not worth trying, but it does seem hard for most people across the board.

 

I understand this kind of problem, mate. I was through it too. But I can give you advice. Follow or not is your call. If you don't have a hobby, try to find one. If you do, try to find a group of people who is as much sick with this hobby as you. It is a good way to find somebody as a friend, and you will know, that you're not alone, who has the same interest.

 

He's deleted his account so he might not see this. But I recommend the book Emotional Agility by Susan David to anyone who deals with this issue. She deals with these very issues. I think being comfortable in your own skin is one of the answers to this problem and before you get comfortable you need to figure out what makes you feel uncomfortable.

 

I have noticed it later, that his account was deleted. But thanks for the recommendation.