Can't stand malls and gyms...

I agree. In today's society, many places become sexualized, and many industries make use of our addictions to make profit (not only PMO addictions). It definitely helps avoiding those places unless necessary.

 

Well I am on day 1272 and still I wouldnt go to those places , even here in Pakistan if I am in a developed city and in a mall , the tight clothes make me lose my mind , its okey , its just natural , thats why almost all religions preach modest dressing.

 

I think avoiding normal places like this is distrusting your mind. It is perfectly natural to be find women at the gym or mall attractive. In fact, sexual thoughts should energize and motivate you on sr.

If you get to the point of avoiding regular places, this is not a lifestyle. It's an obsession. Just my opinion but take that into consideration.

 

I agree with gyms being a horrible place to go.

I used to go everyday but I only go like 2 days a week now because they're loaded with girls in short, tight, spandex shorts and bras. I feel like those spandex shorts are getting very popular now, and for a good reason. They reveal EVERYTHING.

The problem is not only what they wear but the poses they get into as well. Many of them wear spandex shorts and get on their hands and knees and do bent over exercises right in front of you. You can literally see every detail of their butt. It's insane.

I don't understand how a woman can dress like that when she knows every single guy in there is staring at every detail of her body.

 

Avoiding populated places indefinitely is impractical. It is, of course, natural to be attracted to a shapely body, however you make the conscious decision to look and stare. Look into sexual transmution in terms of channeling your sexual energy into something else (weightlifting, if that's for you) and you will perhaps reach a point of non-reaction in terms of arousal from the lack of clothing prevalent in modern society.

My comment does not absolve the decreasing decorum of female clothing, however don't allow the sexual nature of society to dominate you and force you to the fringes. Do what you want, if you want to go to a gym, then go. If you don't, pertaining another reason apart from women in tights, then don't.

You also oppose malls, and nine times out of ten you don't need to go to those places, anyway. Smaller, family owned shops should suffice.

 

Just Dont stare?