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I had a colleague who could not get any girls. I have asked him to open every girl he meets on his way from work to home.

If you want to sleep with 20 girls, then you need to start approaching them.

 

And how is that working out for him?

 

You will definitely activate another addiction. Do not start.

 

I used to live in one capital in Europe.

He has spoken to lot of girls.

Had a lot of stories and got married some time ago.

I have done something similar online but the chances are much lower.

If the girl likes you when you open her, then it is much higher chance that you will see her again.

Then the covid came. I have moved out of capital and I have never seen that guy ever again.

BTW That guy was from India and he was in Europe.

 

MountainGoat is trying to let you see the merit in being a virgin, I think. Which I would also like to have you do, although I think it's unfair to compare being a virgin and having had sex with 20 girls. There's obviously a lot of in-between.
However, do you think any woman that you would like to marry would prefer her mate having had sexual experience with prostitutes (or a single prostitute) above her mate not having had sexual experience (except MO of course) with anyone before her?
I know my answer...

 

Depends on your own "will power" but.....every opioid addict that died had exactly that same excuse/reasoning right before they had their first hit.

Rationalization is a very poor substitute for abstention. If you can rationalize it the first time, you'll rationalize it the fifth and fifteenth and fiftieth time too.

A good provider understands your need for her and the manipulation (emotional, financial, dependency) can be intense. She is NOT there for you....she is there for one thing only --- your money. Preferably all of it, bled out as fast as possible.

 

OK, well you are at least aware of the reality of the (money) part of transaction...but also note there is a difference between "being loved by someone" and *someone making love to you*...the relationship is totally transactional and the two of you know it, are aware of it, and accept that the transaction is at the convenience of you both.
My clients all needed that "interaction with another human", so I get that part...and understood I was providing a perception of a reality they needed.
I had clients that were fulfilling an obsession, or a fantasy, or a curiosity. I had others that wanted to learn things or try new things. I had clients that were just bored. I had clients that were over-sexed and could not get enough.

The sugar daddy's I have had were very clear on the transactional nature of our arrangement. Some tried to morph it into romance --- which I ended the arrangement--- and others just saw it as a mutually beneficial arrangement for the both of us.

It seems you are going into this decision with your eyes (and mind) wide open.
Still, I think finding a true love is the best....I have not yet done that and escorting has gotten in the way of that need.

 

Loved by someone? A visit to a prostitute, (you can try to make it sound better by saying escort but she's a prostitute) is the furthest thing from love. It would all be about sex and getting you to blow your load as quick as possible. It seems like you have this fantasy like you'll orgasm and spend the rest of the time laying in bed cuddling with each other and kissing like you just made love. My guess, she's going to want you to get out.

I'll admit it, I have had thoughts about visiting escorts in the past but could never do it. The fear of catching an STD or being arrested as part of a police sting is enough to scare me off.

 

I've read this before, and it's confusing to me. Is prostitution illegal in many countries?

 

It's illegal in state I live in, in the USA. Every once in a while I'll see a news story of a local police sting operation and they catch 10-20 guys.

 

Huh, interesting. Yeah, that would seem like a big reason to me not to do it either. Although there are plenty anyway, if you ask me.

 

My addiction has manifested itself in many ways now...started with P and now I've been addicted to Asian massage parlors for 3 or 4 years. Who knows what's next?! If you're like me, you will likely become addicted to whatever "next" is...in your case, escorts.

I found great success in this community years ago and am back to do it again. Staying connected and honest is key. I wish you the best in your journey.

 

Yesterday I binge on looking at escort website after some long streak.. however I didn’t go to one or pmo.. I didn’t feel as bad as I thought.. but do feel it’s going to numb my dopamine system..

 

Yeah don't do it bro, it might seem like an answer but it's honestly a very intense bad alternative. Unless you can at least attract someone women around in your daily life, you visiting an prostitute or massage parlour will make you feel worse after you get home. You'll try to justify another visit as "building a connection" with a certain girl. I've was addicted to the massage parlours for a couple years and finally broken down & cried one day after realizing how much money I've spent and the time that was wasted. You may develop a real connection with one but at the end of day she's needs the job more than you and will not make that sacrifice even if she wanted to.

 

All my mind is telling me now is to binge binge until I actually relapse… I feel so crap don’t know what to do now to just look away.. today I went out to the town and I felt like a zombie… world of my own..

 

You will feel empty, guilty, ashamed and robbed afterwards.