Bragging about progress

Just wanted to encourage guys and their partners out there… not to brag… but I can’t help it. My spouse have been off porn for a couple of months now. He has also been sort off any other type of stimulation other than piv. There was a tiny slip up buy overall he has been pretty good. So our main problem was his delayed ejaculation… but not only we have noticed amazing progress in that but I believe he has gotten bigger and firmer ( at least on the way it feels to me) in general which is an added bonus. Also, sex is a lot more intimate where I feel he is actually mentally connected, and he is turned on from just seeing me walk out of the shower. For sure porn is toxic for man’s virility. I really hope that his streak lasts forever. I am happy nofap is a thing and people are gradually realizing how bad is it for normal sex life , at least in the amounts it is consumed today.

 

The most important thing that he is doing is not watching porn honestly. He used to watch it multiple times a day. Before sex, during sex in order to finish, and even after to finish one more time. Instead of initiating with me he would just start watching and then invite me in. It was about lust and orgasm. It is almost like he was hoping that I would say that I was tired. Because often I would say that if this ks the way he asks. He was lying to himself that he was able to achieve it without porn but he was not. Now, it starts off with emotional connection, cuddling, kissing, touching etc. before There was almost no way for him finish it without watching before. Now, if he can’t do it he just let’s it go until next time. I used to offer other options but now he is the one who declines. He doesn’t really get to much alone time. He is really focused on his career at the moment and even just got a promotion/raise. I am not sure if taking over his addiction helped him at work or being focused on work helped to do better at conquering his addiction but I am proud of him honestly. I think he started off by doing it to please me and to prove that he can finish without porn but I think he is seeing the benefits now.

 

I think it is about keeping busy. He barely has time because of many new projects at work, promotion and new responsibilities . He also barely has any alone time. Which may not be great because anyone needs self-care but i suppose if addiction is an issue may be it is better to have it in public or semipublic place like gym etc