Gooning/hypnosis/sissy. (trigger warning)

All jokes aside, if this is serious enough for suicide you should check in with an actual professional counselor/psychiatrist and get help. Being suicidal doesn't mean a person wants to die, it means they want to solve a problem or stop hurting and they are so desperate theyre choosing the extreme 'answer.'
Most of this porn was designed to get you aroused to give views/money. Nothing more. Sometimes theres a deep problem that needs addressing but sometimes it's just being addicted to the chemical release in your brain.
So, if anyone needs a big epic struggle to help them get clean; alright. Good luck, Spartan. If you think this is just like kicking smoking or booze, alright let's get clean. Whatever you want man.

 

Hey man I suggest seeking some sort of therapy, but also seeking the SAA (Sex Addicts Anonymous), the therapy will help you to deal with any past traumas and have an impartial person and in SAA you can seek people who have been through what you've gone through and similar problems with oversexuality and sexual escalation. Both are great options, but I do suggest finding a community that is quickly on hand, people you can call and who can help you to understand where you are, not where you ahve been or will be.

Take it one day at a time friend!

 

what does gooner mean?

 

I can relate COMPLETELY. Over the years the point has become more and more disgusting. It has led me down a path of bad relationships, prostitutes and lots and lots of SELF HATRED.
I pray to God I can find my way to the other side of this. My mind is twisted up pretty bad.

 

Gooning is a concept that is getting me confused at what it really is? Is it really just theoretical or some addicts actually do attempt to pursue "gooning state"?

 

Are you still having trouble with sissy porn?

 

I was confused too, and regrettably curious about it.

The best move may be to just forget about it though... There will always be some kind of new porn genre or whatever, but real human connection is what we're going for!

 

You are right, however, I have been hearing more and more about this term. Which why it bothered me I can't really comprehend on what exactly it is. Reminds me of the short-lived OOBE trend in the early 2010s.

 

I think it's just a different term for binge.

Instead of watching an entire series on netflix, one watches porn for a whole night. You wake up the next day with the same problem of having avoided your responsibilities, only the headache and brain fog is 10x worse!

 

Hypno P* is tactics of Mind Control agenda. It's perfect manipulation to implant hook into subconscious mind.

 

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I started off with normal p*rn, such as na*ed women, s*x, etc.

Then, the longer I was looking at it, the more PMVs (P*rn Music Videos) appealed to me, then Psychadelic p*rn was appealing, then gooning p*rn was more appealing. I can't say I ever got hooked on sissy p*rn, because I was molested as a kid (which is actually how I got hooked on p*rn to begin with), and I just find men being with other men disgusting (in my own opinion).

I will say that I've definitely experienced the rabbit hole, and it is real. I definitely found myself seeking out more and more novel forms of p*rn, because it would be like the previous stuff was not as exciting anymore. At first, I was turning to it because I was ho*ny, but over time, I found myself using it like an addict would use a drug - to feel better.

Unfortunately, I still struggle with it myself, and the awareness of what kind of sh*t I actually was watching woke me up, and made me seriously question wtf I was actually doing. Dopamine is a strong chemical, and it takes a lot of determination to stick through a cold turkey program.

 

I will say that having delved into the gooning type of porn, it is very visually stimulating. Part of the gooning mantra is "porn on, mind off" and other such "slogans". To me, the draw was being able to be stimulated without much effort. However, as others have mentioned, it is really bad, as there is hypno in the form of images, captions, subliminal captions, etc. It is indeed a form of mind control, and they wrap it in the form of visually & sexually stimulating images, videos, and audios.

In my case, the more I became sensitized to "normal" porn, the more I was drawn to more visually excitable stuff.

Maybe that will help explain what it is and why it's becoming more of a thing. My advice, stay away from it, because it can be very addictive (more dopamine hits than normal porn I suspect) and damaging, due to the negative messages added in - these made me question my masculinity, dominance, self-esteem, etc. - everything a man really needs to succeed in life. I believe this type of porn is being created with an agenda to weaken men in general; can't prove it, but I strongly suspect it. There also seems to be a real trend to try to weaken white men especially for some reason, as there is a lot of emphasis in that as well.

 

I wanted to revisit this thread. I think there is a lot to unpack here, and I hope I'm helping someone by going through all this.

I've been contemplating and ruminating over why this type of porn "works so well" to turn a straight guy into someone who is interested in things he normally would not be.

I've also been wondering how do we reverse changes that we've allowed to take place, but don't want any longer.

I have come to some conclusions; apologies for the length of this post, but I think it's good information, and might help some people.

So, let's dive in.

I've been trying to understand why guys get hooked on porn.

We know that we are all addicted to what makes us feel good, and it's been proven that men get a dopamine hit when they look at a beautiful woman.

If a man is merely looking at a beautiful woman (think Sports Illustrated models), and has women that he hangs out with, this is no big deal, because the major dopamine hits he receives are from being in the company of women.

If, on the other hand, a man is using pictures or videos of women in order to escape something else (ie: feel better), then this does become a problem, because the major dopamine hits he receives are from fake pictures, videos, etc. This creates a vicious downwards spiral, because he then feels ashamed, lonely, etc and turns to these same media to feel better, again.

The other thing that occurs with dopamine is that one never receives as much as the initial "hit" unless it's novel in variety. This is why new people are exciting to be around - they are novel. This is also why established relationships can become boring - they are not novel any longer.

Same is true with the media a man turns to in order to feel better. A picture of a woman in a bikini is novel at first, and the man receives his dopamine "hit" and feels better. Then, the next day, he goes back to that same image, but it does not affect him as it did before, so now he seeks out a woman who is wearing a more skimpy bikini, and gets the same "hit" as before.

Before long, non-nude women or even solo nude women are no longer giving him the dopamine "hit" he craves, so he turns to other novel things. At this point, normal life also does not give him the dopamine hit he craves, because fake media is much more stimulating. So, whereas talking to a new woman may have given him those novel exciting feelings before; now, he feels dull at the idea of meeting women, and only craves more and more intense videos.

This is where people have their own agenda, namely, to make weak men even weaker. It's not advantageous to have a lot of mentally strong men around (more competition), so they take advantage of the novelty addiction complex, and insert their own agenda into media that is novel and will therefore be sought out by men who are seeking their next dopamine rush or "hit".

In order to understand what they are doing, we have to understand how the brain works. The brain works, mainly, by associations. If you're feeling something intensely, and something else is occurring simultaneously during those feelings, those feelings will become associated, or linked, to that thing that is occurring.

When men get into gooning porn, they usually are getting into it because they cannot feel that same dopamine rush with normal porn, because it's no longer novel - so they don't get the dopamine rush. Gooning porn has a lot of stimulation (flashing lights, fast images, tons of clips edited together, etc.) - so in other words, it's more exciting, and thus, feeds the dopamine craving of the man who has become desensitized to normal porn - if there is such a thing.

What the gooning porn producers do, is very ingenious, if not twisted. They flash images or videos of beautiful women who are barely dressed, and get the man's feelings to rise - of course, he experiences feelings of desire or whatever, and then while those feelings are occurring, the gooning porn video then flashes images or videos of a few different things: 1) cocks in general, 2) women sucking off cocks, 3) men being treated in humiliating ways, etc.

This seems innocent enough to the man - he just tells himself that he will ignore all these other things that he is not turned on by; however, the man does not realize that while his feelings of arousal are present for the women, and having these other images/videos occurring during those arousal feelings, he will actually begin to be aroused by cocks, women treating him badly, women sucking on cocks, sucking on cocks in general, etc.

This is why so many men say that they are not gay or bi, but are disturbed by how they start feeling towards gay or bi material. They have failed to understand how the mind works, and how the producers of the gooning porn have used those methods of the mind to make them weaker.

The weaker a man feels, the more he will seek out even more novel (and therefore disturbing) forms of porn, and it's a downwards spiral that seems to have no end in sight. Porn is not a thing to play around with, because there are people who seek to kill you or destroy your life, so that you are no longer competition for them in regards to women.

The good news is that you can undo these things; first of all, whatever you don't feed begins to deteriorate in your mind. If you stop looking at porn for good, your mind will heal itself, and the associations that were formed will begin to dissolve.

Secondly, you can use the same principle for your own good, by visualizing things you do want, and have good, positive, and aroused feelings occurring at the same time. Over time, these will actually begin to replace the ones that were created by the disturbing forms of porn in the past.

If this were all porn did, it would be manageable, however, porn also makes it increasingly difficult for a man to achieve an erection, and the gooning porn also highlights this point by adding in SPH (Small Penis Humiliation) and other "fendom" type stuff. Again, these types of things are "interlaced" between pleasurable scenes (beautiful women, lesbians, etc), so that the man begins to be "brainwashed" into feeling these things are true about himself (as I've already stated, the porn producers of this type of content have an agenda to make weak men even weaker, instead of trying to build them up).

Also, when a man feels down and discouraged, he is likely to turn to porn, and since gooning porn is the only type that will "feed" his dopamine "needs", he will expose himself to these negative messages over and over again, adding in the law of repetition, which is another means whereby to make something permanent in the mind (see autosuggestion).

Again, however, a man can overcome all this, by simply beginning to give himself suggestions (autosuggestions), such as "I am confident", "I like myself", "Women like me as I am", that type of thing, so that he takes control over the programming of his own mind.

Also, it's important to "hijack" these dopamine cravings, so a really good way to do that is physical exercise, because physical exercise releases a lot of dopamine (if you stay with it for long enough).

So, all is not lost. If you find yourself going down the rabbit hole, and don't like where you're headed, you can make a decision, right now, that you will no longer do this anymore.

As Anthony Robbins likes to say, anyone can say what they want or wish for their lives; but those who make a genuine commitment will actually get them. If you're committed to give up porn for good, you can do so, right now, because it's only a decision away. All these other things lie on the other side of a good decision.

Peace to all my brothers out there. Keep up the good fight, and hold out for something true instead of fake.

 

Speaking from a highly porn addicted point of view I thought PORN GOONERS were catagorized as straight men who sexually bond with other straight men to derive intense sexual pleasure over like minded sexual perversions that are generally hidden from mainstream society but for both equally crave???

that defines me, so if it's not what GOONiNG means, we need to crest a term for it!!

 

hii , i am from india and i need to join a saa meeting . can you help me.

 

Nice to meet somebody who has a good understanding of this. Thanks for posting.

I was hooked on all of that sissy crap but today I experience a wonderfull inner peace!

 

I have to say, I never actually Googled or looked up "gooning" in the dictionary (probably wouldn't be there anyway). I assumed, from the content that has been created, that "gooning" meant someone who is hooked on porn, has a porn addiction, and is well down the rabbit hole, in other words, they are looking for more stimulating and novel forms of porn than the "newbie" or "average" user "consumes".

I think that, left unchecked, all porn desires eventually end up in this place (as we are always seeking the next novel thing that is more interesting and stimulating, in order to get that dopamine rush). I've gotten a reality check from my own experiences, that there really is no safe porn use. If you keep using porn, eventually you will end up in this realm. If you take a break, and let your dopamine levels normalize, I think you will be drawn to more "normal" types of porn, but I also think you begin the slippery slide back down the rabbit hole if you've already visited it before.

I used to think that "recreational" porn use was okay - now, I've completely changed my mind, because eventually porn starts using you, instead of the other way around.

 

I fell into the Weed+Cuckold hypnosis stage 2 years ago, getting high and fapping for hours everyday after work to relax, it damaged my psyche and perception of the world and people and it even played a part in triggering alot of the mental disorders that im dealing with today. Its fucking cancer is what it is