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I broke my 14 day streak and fasted instead.

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Mistakesweremade, May 19, 2022.

  1. Mistakesweremade

    Mistakesweremade Fapstronaut

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    Relapsed and binged 3 times before starting a fast that lasted about 62 hrs. (Tried to go 72 hrs but it was just too much to handle.)

    On day 1 of breaking the fast, I felt a greater sense of peace that I can ever recall having since a decade+. It's like fasting reconnected a normalcy in me from years of bad habits. Even my urges to smoke went away. I was heavily addicted to cigarettes right before & during the fast. Social anxiety feels at least 50% reduced.

    Nofap never did much for me. My libido just goes up the longer my streak which leads me to impulsively begin staring/creeping up on girls in public and eventually break after a 14 day+ streak. It felt like a pointless endeavor that put me in an endless loophole.

    I am convinced that fasting was superior to nofap & required far less time to see benefits. I cannot determine if these results will be true for others since everyone is different or have different motives. EG. Woman Attraction, Testerone increase etc.

    I am just sharing my personal story of what I felt was the better resolution to my situation. I have a lot of mental & health issues too long and complicated to list but social anxiety & addiction being on top.

    Tbh, I'd rather keep this amazing self-discovery to myself but I felt a bit giddy and jus let it spill.
     
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  2. MementoMori22

    MementoMori22 Fapstronaut

    Are you sure about that?

    What are your goals? Your big goals, for your life? Is it to blow tonnes of time and energy on pornography? Is it to totally distort your view of sex and intimacy? If so, by all means binge PMO to your heart's content. Just don't be surprised if your content vanishes after months and then years of such practice.

    Also, do not turn this into a false dichotomy. It is perfectly possible to stack other things like fasting on top of NoFap. It is extremely common—from what I've seen here on the forum—for people to workout, meditate, study, improve diet and work on their fears while on their NoFap journey. NoFap is not a blocker that prevents you doing any other positive changes in your life, quite the opposite, it tends to enable these things. This is what is known as a keystone habit.

    Fasting can be good to tap into, but I don't think you can deploy it to the frequency you can with NoFap. NoFap can be applied 24/7 for as long as you want. A continuous effect. Fasting must be deployed periodically. Trust me, I've been very poor and unable to eat for long periods of time in my younger years, you do not want to be thin and malnourished. It wreaks HAVOC on your health for many, many years to come. Particularly your bones. A 48, 60 or 72 hour fast every couple months is probably the sweet spot. Do you only want to have benefits every couple of months, or all the time?

    Regarding NoFap doing nothing for you besides making you "creep up" on girls, I think you should consider a few things. First, how long of a NoFap streak are we talking here? You need to give this process the time it needs to really make the changes to your brain. Consider the recommended reboot time of 90 days—a 14 day streak is less than 16% of the way through that process. Second, you can be passive about your NoFap journey or active. Passive NoFap is just "don't fap and see what happens." Active is "I'm going to deliberately maximise what I'm getting out of this period of change."

    That means digging into your own thoughts and behaviours. Noticing how you act, for instance the "creeping up" that you mentioned. You should dig deeper into that, rather than dismissing it as something unwanted. Why are you doing that? Is it really NoFap that's the problem? Or is NoFap shining a light on how your mind is currently wired and showing you something that you can work on?

    Anyway, I'm just sharing my perspective. You seem like someone with a lot of determination and willpower (not everyone can do a multi-day fast like you did), it would be a shame to see your efforts not applied to their fullest possible advantage. I really think you should reconsider. Peace.
     
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  3. GigglingTrout

    GigglingTrout Fapstronaut

    What's your longest nofap streak been?
     
  4. Mistakesweremade

    Mistakesweremade Fapstronaut

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    Around 90 days of nofap and no smoking. I can't say for sure if it was better than a 3 day fast.

    It was a different kinda feeling.

    One where I felt more calm & content while the other more confident & energetic.

    But if you compare the time it took to achieve the results than the 3 day fast is the clear winner for me.
     
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  5. Mistakesweremade

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    To me, it's more like stacking nofap with fasting not the other way around. (Just personal preference.)

    I think too many members hype up nofap like it's the holy grail or to get super powers. For me, it was not the root of my issues.

    But you're right it will be opportunistic to stack them together along with cold showers, exercise & what not.

    As well, I am not ditching nofap for fasting. I just happened to relapse right before my fast.

    In the future, I will be taking on both endeavors.
     
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  6. Mistakesweremade

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    I already mentioned that I broke my streak and M 3 times just a day before my 3 day fast.

    Usually, bingers would feel like shit after breaking a long streak?

    I am not sure what that means but that fact alone seems pretty amazing to me!
     
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  7. GigglingTrout

    GigglingTrout Fapstronaut

    I'm not sure either, but I like your idea of trying to do both. It sounds kinda awesome, and might bring about some pretty good results

    I'm rooting for you, my friend
     
  8. Mistakesweremade

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    There are plenty of nofappers who already do both.

    But more in the form of intermittent fasting.

    I am sure, they're many who do long fast as well along with nofap - IF is just way more popular since it's way easier to handle.
     
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