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What do you want to do with your life once you've beaten your addiction?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by STB548, May 16, 2022.

  1. STB548

    STB548 Fapstronaut

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    What is your addiction holding you back from? I'm talking about once your brain chemistry has recovered. When you start feeling real joy in life outside of these momentary dopamine releases again, what is it you actually want to accomplish?

    I had a 95 day streak once. I relapsed, and have never come anywhere close ever since. During that 95 day streak, I felt like I wanted to learn how to play an instrument. The violin, to be specific. I don't listen to much classical music, but it feels like it would bring me immense joy to learn how to play it someday. I also love country music. The sound of a fiddle and steel guitar just give me peace of mind.

    Also during that streak, I felt like I wanted to get into theater. Not professionally, but just volunteering at the local club. It'd be like watching a drama TV series, except I'd be able to contribute, even from behind the scenes. I'd see my contributions come to life. I'd also even be able to connect with other people over it. Having this addiction, as well as numerous other contributing factors, have prevented me from making real connections for a really long time.

    What does everyone else have to look forward to after beating this?
     
  2. i want to have a good life . i want peace and health. i want a good job and money. i want to travel to all the 195 countries . i want to travel to queenstown , NZ ( my favourite place ) . i want to settle in new zealand and have a family there. thank you
     
  3. Deepworker.ha

    Deepworker.ha Fapstronaut

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    I want to have a relationship with a sweet girl. A relationship that would help me to develop and grow and become a man that can protect his wife and his children. I want to work harder. I want to learn and study sime books that change my mind and viewpoint to life. I want to find my life meaning.
     
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  4. Warrior4Freedom

    Warrior4Freedom Fapstronaut

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    Travel, and travel blissfully and being present wherever I am.

    Re-start guitar playing, write more, make more meaningful relationships.

    Not let the bullshit of the world get to me. To brush it off in a nanosecond.

    Basically, fulfill my potential.
     
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  5. f3ej

    f3ej Fapstronaut

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    train martial arts and gym
    Go on trips, travel
    Talk to people without fear
    achieve goals
    be alpha
    earn big money
     
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  6. Be able to hold the woman i love in my arms and sing love to her and with her even just karaoke.
     
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  7. It isn't as simple as brain chemistry, for some people there may be multiple mental health issues, dual (or more) diagnosis even if the 'other' one is "just" depression.

    But to answer your question, it's to help people in a more comprehensive way. With one of the issues resolved there may be more to work on, but I think it may become increasingly difficult for people to even understand (or try to) how much is involved. Certainly it depends on the person but you can bet some people may seriously deal with their drinking or drug addiction but are still caught up with sex or have some kind of psychological issue, and don't even see it as an issue. It won't matter if there are still people offering free support and sharing from their experience of recovering from it, I think increasingly there will be more and more people who don't know there is anything to want let alone want it. The fact that general tech use will shorten peoples attention span is not going to help people see there's a bigger picture at play. It seems like the best bet is to be able to help more generally because I'm not waiting for people to get there's a lot more going on, or decide they're really going to tackle the whole thing - that may literally never happen from what I can honestly tell.
     
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