Should I go to a legal brothel to get more experience

Prostitutes?
Escorts?

 

No.

Your a free man, and I won't encroach on that freedom.

But if you're genuinely looking for advice, mine is that there is no good reason to pay for sex.

I would recommend you take time to work through your dreams/goals.

What do you want out of life?

If you just want to live your life high on debauchery and dopamine, then maybe a brothel lines up with your goal. (But it would make me wonder what you're doing here?)

But, if one of your sexual goals is to fall in love with someone and spend your life with them (which is the case for lots of people; again, maybe not you), then fuck "experience" going into that.

Love is largely about learning each other... Psychologically, emotionally, and physically.

"Experience" with a prostitute isn't going to help you in learning to truly love. It'll honestly hinder more than anything. Especially if your partner doesn't perform the way you "experienced" after you paid for a professional. Your future partner is going to need to learn you too, remember.


I honestly can't think of a scenario that paying for a sex worker could happen out of a place of authentically expressing your true self.

Again, if that's not your path, then I'm not going to stop you .

It depends on what you want.


If you want love (even eventually), then brothels will not help you with that.

 

No

 

No, brothels are always a very bad idea.

 

When I was 2 years younger than you I was still a virgin, and I decided to save up some money to initiate myself with an escort. But when I finally gathered the amount I had initially set as a goal, I dismissed the option. Don't ask me why but it didn't feel right.

I'm not going to tell you to do it or not, that's up to you. Just to let you know that I know how you feel and totally get why you are considering this as a option..

 

It's your choice.

My view is no. I'm getting married later this summer. She and I have yet to have sex. When we marry it'll be two years since we started dating. Take the time to get to know her. While sex is a part of a relationship, it only one part. I can see going to a prostitute as being another form of masturbation. There's no real connection. While I've never gone to a prostitute, I have had sex a few times with a woman I had no real connection with. Essentially, it was masturbation using her vagina. The only thing missing was all the porn, though it would have been in the back of my mind.

 

I lost my virginity to an escort at 17, addicted to porn and unable to think straight it actually became a habit for me, to be honest it felt good at the time for me, but now its something that I remain deeply ashamed of. It wasn't until my late 20's that I eventually ended up getting a girlfriend and I always regret not just waiting for it to happen naturally.

 

I live in Nevada and had asked a similar question like this and if I remember correctly I got the same answers you're getting here. The question would float through my head for a long time but thankfully their responses put things into perspective for me. My value doesn't decrease just because people say so...I shouldn't feel less of a man just because I haven't experienced the same things they have!

 

You're already talking about a specific person and a 'girlfriend experience', so in a way you're falling for her the more you think (and write) about her But she will not be your girlfriend-it's all based on money. I say no.
Build your life and put that money in savings or spend it on things that genuinely help you grow.

 

The only experience escorts provide you with are:

• Poor financial managment.
• Degrading interactions.
• Disappointments.
• Itches.

 

The only bad thing about brothels is how much they try to rip you off. Ive been to Sheri's ranch once, Ngl I had an amazing sexual experience with the courtesan but it was pretty expensive...ever since that experience I always wanted to go back but I didn't because of money. I say go for it but don't make it a habit.

 

[He said: go to a hooker who 's having sex with different man all her life.
Go visit her and "try" her out. Listen to your porn brain and in stead of using porn you act out your lust in real life.

He said: go for it, go for the next level in your addiction.....

Go for it ....
...... but don't make it a habit .......]

 

The face-palming lion has a point.

 

No

 

No. You don't need experience. What you need is a hard mode reboot, and shift your mind off of sex for a while.